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45 M Pittsburgh, PA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:57pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Russian (Okay)

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My self-summary
old enough that I should know better but young enough to still believe in magic.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a licensed psychotherapist
I’m really good at
making people laugh out loud, playing the Spanish Guitar, tennis (well sort of good, I need to practice), not taking myself too seriously, staying positive despite all the BS in this life, making people feel at ease.
The first things people usually notice about me
that I am even cooler than they thought I was going to be (that was a joke BTW) I really have no idea...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Unbearable Lightness of Being (Milan Kundera)
The Hero with a Thousand Faces (Joe Campbell)
The Essential Rumi (I used to read this over and over and over)
The Book of Job

I still watch and laugh at Seinfeld on occasion
Louie CK (let me tell you if you are not watching this you are missing something really great)
movies like The Godfather, Goodfellas, Spinal Tap, Wedding Crashers (I could watch this once a week), Blade Runner(director's cut), Star Wars, the 5th element, Breathless (the original), Dr Zhivago (prob. my fav of all time) etc etc.
Music? that is like asking me do I like to breathe air! If I had to narrow it down it would look something like this...
The Bach Cello Suites, The Goldberg Variations, Beethoven's 7th, John Dowland songs, Chopin, Issac Albeniz, Claude Debussy, Erik Satie, Maurice Ravel, Django Rheinhardt, flamenco music and dance, Steely Dan, Vince Guaraldi, John Coltrane, Leonard Cohen, Tom Waits , Bruce Springsteen, The Beatles, Bob Dylan, Led Zeppelin, Jimi Hendrix, Prince, Al Green, Roxy Music, The Smiths, Depeche Mode, The Cult, even some old school hip hop like Erik B and Rakim and the Beastie this is not really narrowing it down now is it!! Bottom Line I WORSHIP MUSIC!!
The six things I could never do without
green tea
Cream of Wheat w/ a little Polaner jam to make it extra tasty
Red Wine (pinot, cab, shiraz, etc.)
baroque music
a loving family (I guess I should have put this one first)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the sound effect that always announced the impending shenanigans that cousin Olivier was about to unleash on the unsuspecting Bradys
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I once met my soul-mate on here so yes I do believe those kind of people exist. I lost touch with her though...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
you know when to hold 'em and when to fold 'em