Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy

notuglyyet

46 Pittsburgh, PA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 35–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:49am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Russian (Okay)

Similar Users

My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
old enough that I should know better but young enough to still believe in magic.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a licensed psychotherapist
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making people laugh out loud, playing the Spanish Guitar, tennis (well sort of good, I need to practice), not taking myself too seriously, staying positive despite all the BS in this life, making people feel at ease.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that I am even cooler than they thought I was going to be (that was a joke BTW) I really have no idea...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Unbearable Lightness of Being (Milan Kundera)
The Hero with a Thousand Faces (Joe Campbell)
The Essential Rumi (I used to read this over and over and over)
The Book of Job

I still watch and laugh at Seinfeld on occasion
Louie CK (let me tell you if you are not watching this you are missing something really great)
movies like The Godfather, Goodfellas, Spinal Tap, Wedding Crashers (I could watch this once a week), Blade Runner(director's cut), Solaris (the original), Star Wars, the 5th element, Breathless (the original), Dr Zhivago (prob. my fav of all time) etc etc.
Music? that is like asking me do I like to breathe air! If I had to narrow it down it would look something like this...
The Bach Cello Suites, The Goldberg Variations, Beethoven's 7th, John Dowland songs, Chopin, Issac Albeniz, Claude Debussy, Erik Satie, Maurice Ravel, Django Rheinhardt, flamenco music and dance, Steely Dan, Vince Guaraldi, John Coltrane, Leonard Cohen, Tom Waits , Bruce Springsteen, The Beatles, Bob Dylan, Led Zeppelin, Jimi Hendrix, Prince, Al Green, Roxy Music, The Smiths, Depeche Mode, The Cult, even some old school hip hop like Erik B and Rakim and the Beastie Boys...wow this is not really narrowing it down now is it!! Bottom Line I WORSHIP MUSIC!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
exercise
green tea
Irish Oatmeal
Red Wine (pinot, cab, shiraz, etc.)al
baroque music
a loving family (I guess I should have put this one first)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You think we would hit it off and you actually have time to date and get to know someone. Dating is not "Hey I can see you three weeks from this Wednesday for 5 minutes at a coffee shop" Everyone is busy.... people make time if they want to...