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20 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–29
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 26
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Strictly vegan
Not at all
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Working on university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any

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My self-summary
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I just want someone who'd enjoy improvisational theatre and Settlers of Catan, but all these girls' dating profiles say they "hate drama" and "don't play games".

I love math, physics, computer science, ethics, and the gigantic swathes of science which are connected to all of those fields. I moved back to SF in December.

I'm involved in the Effective Altruism movement, and I'm particularly passionate about advocating for animal rights.

I'm also a musician. Here's a song of mine about feminism, pick up artists, and compromise: Here's my Soundcloud:

Here's my website:
What I’m doing with my life
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Programming. Teaching programming. Designing software to improve education. Writing music and performing it. Thinking about how to reduce speciesism.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing songs which make people gasp and smile. Writing code for ridiculous purposes--ask me how many Turing machines I have. Keeping the attention of large crowds. Taking crazy ideas seriously.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Andrew Denton walked up to me and said, and I quote, "You have a lovely face. I really liked seeing it on stage," and walked away again. So there's at least one data point for that.

(americans, you might have to google this one)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I spend an inappropriate amount of time rereading this OkCupid profile:

Music: Ball Park Music, Streetlight Manifesto, fun., Dear and the Headlights , Bright Eyes, The Format, Kim Dotcom ...

No, seriously, please google Ball Park Music. They're an amazing Australian band who deserves much more worldwide recognition.

More obscurely: Fun Machine, Tape 5, Trouser Trouser, Hashemoto, Josh Martinez, and Speedy Ortiz.

Books: HPMOR, The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Artificial Intelligence: A Modern Approach, Rumo.

Blogs: Slate Star Codex, LessWrong, The View From Hell, Overcoming Bias, UtilitarianEssays, Squid314
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A piano somewhere in my life. Friends who care about non-human animals. Math and computer science to learn and teach.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
More than anything else in the world, I hate how people think it's okay to non-consensually exploit non-human animals, for food or otherwise. I spend a lot of time thinking about how we can fix that.

I also spend a lot of time thinking about popular music and what makes it good, so I can steal the good aspects of it for my own band. I spend almost as much time running through the unfinished songs I have in my head.

Computer science and math occupy much of the rest of my thoughts. I've been enjoying studying operating systems recently, and I love thinking about the bits of category theory and abstract algebra which I understand. (Message me if you know or want to know what a co-mathematician does.)

In my weaker moments, I sometimes try to have opinions on political questions about feminism or immigration, but I try not to take those too seriously. They're interesting to talk about, though.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
coding, playing music, attending my local LessWrong meetup
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Someone once published an article about me which claimed that my "criticism of her views on metaethics" was a pick-up-artist-inspired seduction tactic. If PUAs actually encouraged discussion of metaethics, I'd be much more on board with the movement.
You should message me if
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you want to talk to me, play music with me, or date me.

I am also actively interested in talking to any and all people whose main life goal is making the world a better place. Do you disagree with me about how to do that? Should I focus more on feminism or environmentalism or party politics? I'd love to discuss that with you.