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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 50–64
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 4
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Not at all
Other, and laughing about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Let’s see, a summary of my entire life in a paragraph or two. I started off as a newspaper reporter, moved into radio talk show nonsense, then taught second grade, then high school English, then attended seminary and became a Baptist minister (while my parting from the ministry was amicable, it’s also irreconcilable, as I am now an agnostic/atheist) then became a school principal for 15 years while also directing and acting with a nationally-touring improv group, then took time off to write three novels, then supervised a passel of adult foster-care homes, then returned to principalling, then started working with homeless veterans. This last is current, and I am executive director of a transitional-living home for formerly homeless veterans.

That paragraph is either agreeably impressive or evidence of a misspent life. Or both.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Personally, I have been sober for more than five years, and my continued sobriety continues to be a central goal. I’m more than comfortable with social drinkers, but if you really value your two or three glasses of wine at the end of the day you may want to steer clear of me. I have three daughters, two of whom are on their own (if college can be seen as independence rather than its prevention). My youngest lives with her mom, but spends one night a week and every other weekend with me. My divorce was years ago and any wounds from it have long since healed or turned into scar tissue.
I play tennis two or three times a week—not well but with pleasure—and walk my dog at least a few miles a day. I do like to keep busy and am up for just about any physical activity.

I’m looking for a smart, funny, quirky woman who enjoys laughter, literature and language.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing--As a poet I'm a great essayist. As an essayist I'm a great novelist. As a novelist I'm a great love note writer.

Cooking vegetables--cauliflower with anchovies and Brussels sprouts with prosciutto are particular favorites.

Washing whites--clothes, not the race. I, of course, use bleach, but always finish with bluing.

Improvising through life and making conversation with just about anyone about just about anything. (Three uses of the word "about"--really?)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Not having the kind of matinee-idol good looks that turn women dewy, I suspect people notice my ability to turn a phrase. While riding a unicycle. With shirt aflame. Blindfolded.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Obvious books: Gatsby, most of Sinclair Lewis, George Orwell's essays and other nonfiction, Joan Didion's essays.

Movies: Waking Life, Apocalypse Now, Reds, Life is Beautiful

Music: Tonio K., Lou Reed, Warren Zevon, Dar Williams, Ani DiFranco

Food: Yes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. The thought that life can be better
2. The possibility of true love
3. A specially-chosen roller-ball pen
4. Strong coffee
5. My personal sobriety
6. A well-pressured shower
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
More of the future and less of the pasture.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going to a movie with friends, writing, reading. Anything but watching television is a possibility.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I once belonged to Mensa during a younger and much more foolish incarnation. Turns out I didn't meet the best and the brightest but a bunch of folks who are really good at double acrostics.
You should message me if
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You were even vaguely amused by this profile.