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november17dee

27 / M / gay / Single

Beloit, Wisconsin

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
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New friends, Long-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Drugs
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Libra
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
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Pets
Languages
English

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I am talkative, gregarious, and jovial.

My Self-Summary

This is my first foray into online dating, so I'm not sure exactly what I'm supposed to say here. I'm in my late 20s and a fairly new librarian. I like to read, people-watch at coffeeshops, outdoor activities (camping, hiking, boating). I'm currently stuck in Beloit, WI and am originally from Indiana. I love my job and my work environment, but the city leaves much to be desired, especially since I moved here from Milwaukee. I frequently find myself going back there and couch-surfing. Let's see, what else... I'm a big concert-goer -- I'll go to shows as a loner if necessary (I'm not yet at the point where I'm the creepy old guy in the back of the bar).

Random factoids: Halloween is my favorite holiday. I'm one of the few people I know who actually likes meatloaf. I value education and intellectual curiosity. I like museums, antique shops, and other places where you can find old things (but not nursing homes -- those are creepy). I once went caving many years ago -- I'd love to do it again, but haven't had the opportunity. More to come as I think of it....

What I’m doing with my life

Working. Otherwise, I read a lot and hang out in Milwaukee on weekends.

I’m really good at

Playing chess, crossword puzzles, drinking coffee... I'm also decent at trivia. And talking. I'm not sure what else I can say without sounding full of myself.

The first things people usually notice about me

I'll have to remember to ask folks that! I get occasional compliments on my smile. I've also been described as "animated," so for whatever that's worth...

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Well, I'm a librarian, so listing my favorite books could take forever. I like Kurt Vonnegut, Cormac McCarthy, Neil Gaiman, Sylvia Plath, Tom Franklin, Katherine Dunn, Erik Larson, Edward Gorey, Jonathan Safran Foer, and a bunch of others!

Same with movies, though since I was a kid I've always loved Tim Burton.

It always seems pretentious to list millions of bands on these things. I have a weakness for violin, cello, banjo, and pianos. Recently, I've been listening to O'Death, Rasputina, Woven Hand, Those Poor Bastards, White Ghost Shivers, etc.

The six things I could never do without

Friends, coffee, books, music, laughter, and Icebreakers mints. In that order.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

What I want to be when I grow up.

On a typical Friday night I am

In Milwaukee with my friends, perhaps playing darts at a relaxed bar. Otherwise, maybe just hanging out and catching up.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I brush my teeth in the shower. And that's all you're getting, so ha!

You should message me if

you can read this.