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20 M Denver, CO

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:45pm
5′ 7″ (1.71m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Working on two-year college
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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My name's Ross. I am a mild-mannered individual; I have a tendency to be soft-spoken, but I can also be sociable when I get a chance to thaw through my tepid personality. I have integrity, I am confident, with a cheek for cynical wit and self deprecating humor. I recently started a new job that I find myself being anxious / yet distressed for, as I drudge through the hazing-like ritual of "the 90 days". I am attending community college for an AA of Arts Degree to study business at a University, I would like to somehow work in the record industry: either as a music journalist or producer. I have a great interest in music and literature, these things exonerate me from the mundanity of life; I would not have the self identity I have today without them.

I joined this site initially to find a relationship, unfortunately I have not truly had a relationship--I have been on dates, but have not found someone that I felt I could connect with. I am attracted to someone that is confident, challenging, sagacious, and straight-forward.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
going through the motions. Working, sometimes spending too much for vintage vinyl, figuring out life one day at a time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being the king of run on sentences.

Playing guitar within my means.

Being socially awkward.

Not cooking very well.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can be timid at first.

My sarcastic, cynical, self-deprecating, and dark sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Love Is A Dog from Hell, Women, You Get So Alone At Times It Just Feels Right, Conspiracy Against The Human Race: A Contrivance of Horror, Nick Cave Sinner Saint: The True Confessions, The Collected Poems of Sylvia Plath, Naked Lunch, How To Make Love Like A Pornstar: A Cautionary Tale.

To Have and Have Not, Three Faces of Eve, Snake Pit, Autoluminescent, Dark Passage, Wings of Desire, Gilda, Begin Again, The Stepford Wives

Californication, Masters of Sex, Curb Your Enthusiasm

The Birthday Party, Chelsea Wolfe, Crime & The City Solution, Current 93, Lee Hazlewood, Legendary Pink Dots, Lydia Lunch, Morrissey, Nick Cave & The Bad Seeds, Scarling.

Can never go wrong with mexican or italian, sushi, burgers, or steak
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Literature
2. Music
3. Electric guitar
4. Morrissey or Nick Cave within my iPod / record collection.
5. Prose
6. Self-deprecating / crass humor
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The life I wished I lived and the life I do live, and what I need to do to achieve a life that I will be the most proud of.

Why women are so much more spiritual than men.

Which is better: 256kbps or 320kbps when it comes to digital music.

If this site is single handedly diminishing my self confidence because it is very seldom that my messages get a reply.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday nights vary for me: I could be working long into the night, have a day off, listening to The Smiths after a lugubrious day at work, at a concert, reading (for pleasure or for academia). Unfortunately, I am not the most interesting human being.
You should message me if
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You don't have ulterior motives.

You're not looking for a slave that will break his back in support of a minimum wage so you can laze and graze for the rest of your days.