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38 M Montreal, Quebec, CA

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Its impossible to sum up who we are in a few sentences. So here are a few...Im a pretty laid back person with a really silly sense of humor. I ride my pink bike pretty much everywhere, for as long as i can- I stopped biking in the winter because Montreal drivers are too dangerous. Half of the city should not have their drivers license...
My main interests are history, philosophy, theology (because so many of humanity's actions are influenced by religion i feel its important to understand it), photography and drawing, and also keeping in touch with what goes on in the world at the moment. My politics are very left-leaning and material gain is not a priority in my life.

As for my profile info, because okc is still very traditional, most of it is not true. Id say i identify as pansexual and also sapiosexual. I am aware many think of this as elitist, they are the terms that would best describe me, straight does not!
There is also no option for polyamorous, so since i really am married thats what i chose.
What I’m doing with my life
I recently switched jobs, went from working night to doing day shifts at a local direct trade coffee shop, and loving it! I also play bass in a band and occasionally dj. I read a lot, fiction as well as non- fiction; I always have a book on me. Im also trying to teach myself how to play keyboard and program a drum machine. The latter is pretty hard so far!
I’m really good at
I am the ultimate pun master, you have been warned (to be fair, this was written by my primary :P). Thats where the silly sense of humor comes in. I'm very patient, a good conversationalist and i can (and like to) make people laugh. Im passionate about music, and i apparently make good mix tapes...
The first things people usually notice about me
My tattoos, my eyes (so I'm told), and the fact that I'm the person serving them behind the counter!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Dostoyevsky, Franz Kafka, Douglas Adams, Ralph Ellison, Robert Anton Wilson, Carson Mc Cullers, Karen Armstrong... I have a soft spot for Kurt Vonnegut, and i also love non- fiction books.
I recently finished reading "Opening up", by Tristan Taormino. Its a refreshing view on open relationships.
Im also almost done "God is not great", by Christopher Hitchens.

Jean-Pierre Jeunet, Happiness, The Ballad of Genesis P Orridge and Lady Jaye. Im honestly not very well versed in movies.

Criminal Minds, Doctor Who, Breaking Bad...

The Mob, Kraftwerk, Led er est, Xmal Deutschland, Joy Division, OMD, The Cure, T21, The Soft Moon, Depeche Mode, Devo, PTV, Trust, the list is endless. I like punk, post- punk, cold wave, minimal electronic music, as well as some synth- pop and industrial.

Im really into 80's Eastern European underground music, its fascinating how people managed to write, record and play subversive music in such repressive conditions!

Indian food! Coffee! I love coffee, we are very lucky in Montreal to have so many independent coffee shops that specialize in fair/ direct trade coffee. Thai food though it is sometime hard to find it vegetarian...
The six things I could never do without
my bike
my cat
my primary partner
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Stuff for my musical project (writing music). The state of the world, my impact on it and how I can better myself. I try really hard to keep up with what happens in the world, to keep myself well informed, and also not to get too discouraged by what Harper is doing to the country, though i must say its not working out so great these days!
On a typical Friday night I am
After working nights and week ends for almost ten years, i now work days. That being said, i don't know what a typical Friday night is! I'll go to shows, dj nights or stay home, or go for a tea /coffee.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm stealing this from my primary's profile:

i'm in an open marriage with tygrbabe who I've been with for 19 years now and poly for 17 of those (so this is not a new thing). i tend to prefer dating people who are poly or at the very least know about the concept (of open relationships).

I guess its not that private, but its also something i wont tell every person i see on the street.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
I'm interested in friends first and foremost, not opposed to a romantic relationship if one develops but not interested in casual sex. Also must be poly or poly- friendly.