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noxbayou

35 M Round Rock, TX

My Details

Last Online
Aug 19
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Medicine
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I was born in Houston and grew up in a small town in southern Louisiana called Opelousas that is in the heart of Cajun country. Although I grew up in Cajun country, I'm not Cajun; I'm Louisiana Creole.

I'm a huge fan of games: Board Games, Card Games, Video Games, and anything else to exercise the mind. Although, I generally do not have the time to play them.

I'm nontheist. I do not recognize a rational concept of god, but I'm open to someone conceiving one. Although the traditional concept would not fit. I'm not supportive of any supernatural concepts. They simply contain no meaning for me.

That said I do consider myself religious. Religion comes from the latin "religare" meaing to rebind and the procedural suffix "-ion". In essence, religion is the process of rebinding. This includes the rebinding of a group into a functioning community and the elements of one's mind into a functioning psyche. I covenant my religious inclinations around the concepts of free will, individualism, and discord.

Discord is vital to human growth. Without it, we settle into a mind-stultifying association with only those people and views that we already know and understand.

Philosophically, I'm extropian which is a more well-defined form of transhumanism.

Politically, I am libertarian. Libertarianism is in favor of as small and least coercive of a government as possible. Leaning anarchist, I believe that it is possible to remove every last vestige of coercion from government eventually; thus leaving something purely voluntary in place. Although, I expect this to happen slowly.

I am polyamorist. I am married and have a four year old son. I will be keeping nothing secret from my wife. She has known that I am polyamorous since we first met about ten years ago. She is polyamorous as well. In the future, we would like to grow a family to include an additional spouse or two. So, polyamory is important to me.

I am also very strongly bisexual. That's right I'm a bisexual male. I find people that try to argue that I don't exist tiresome.

I'm a yoga instructor and I own a small yoga and massage business with my wife who is a massage therapist. I am a strong proponent of yoga and am very experienced tailoring yoga sequences to individual needs.
What I’m doing with my life
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Right now, I have a new business with my wife that I'm working to get off the ground. Also, I have a four year old son. He really is great and loves people.

I teach kids yoga, adult yoga, and am a laughter yoga leader. With this economy, it is a struggle. Although, I truly believe that if we can continue improving our business management skills, we will be well-skilled to take off during the next phase in the economic cycle.

My wife has recently been trained as a yoga instructor as well and now she has begun going back to school to get her bachelor's degree in biochemistry.

I'm trying to start a religious congregation called The First Libertarian Fellowship covenanting around the concepts of free will, individualism, and discord but without any creedal obligations. This is proving to be as difficult as I anticipated, but I keep plugging along.

I plan to found a school patterned off the Sudbury Valley School before my son turns seven, but that's still in the conceptual stages.

I currently organize the
Metro-Austin Polyamory-Positive Relationships Group through meetup. We meet in Round Rock usually.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Biting off more than I can chew and struggling to make it work. I'm also good at philosophy and mediation. I endeavor to help people see the best in each other. I believe there is value in nearly everyone. The loss of any one is a loss for everyone.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Is that sometimes I talk too much. I have spent so much time pondering very weight issues that I feel strongly inclined to share my conclusions. Sometimes people think that that means I expect them to agree with me. Nothing could be further from the case. I have spent a long time wrapping my mind around the implications of ideas like a non-supernatural benevolent universe that achieves that benevolence simply by being the home in which we evolved.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love Terry Pratchett. I enjoyed Sex At Dawn once they got past the esoteric sniping at other academics that were likely unfamiliar to their readers anyway. I thoroughly enjoyed Godel, Escher, Bach: An Eternal Golden Braid by Douglas R. Hofstadter. I found Anthem by Ayn Rand quite moving. My favorite book by Heinlein is Time Enough for Love. I have enjoyed everything by Heinlein that I have read. I'm currently reading Reinventing the Sacred by Stuart Kauffman.

I like Penn & Teller's Bullshit that they had on Showtime. I'm a huge Doctor Who fan. Watching Swamp People on the History Channel makes me homesick for Louisiana, but the economy will never be strong enough there to support my family.

I enjoy Cajun and Zydeco music even when my memory doesn't serve me well enough to know what they are always saying. I enjoy more mainstream stuff as well, but that is hardly worth mentioning.

I'm planning to attend a crawfish boil when I can. Becoming a yoga instructor has not changed the ingrained Cajun inclination to eat good food. Although, I will admit that I sometimes forget to eat and that can be a problem for someone with my level of activity.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family. I have a great wife and and an excellent son.
Books.
Philosophy.
Patience.
Laughter.
A Stream of New Information.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Politics, Philosophy, Science, Laughter, Yoga, My Small Business, My Son, My Wife, Polyamory, Futurism, extropianism, Anarchism, Education, Making a Positive Change in the World, how nice it would be to play a board game or video game, How to end involuntary, abject poverty throughout the world and finally achieve a world without war, Economics, just having fun, trying to lay the foundations for a more open and accepting culture.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Teaching yoga
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm long-cycling bipolar. I have it well-managed now, but I do cycle over a 7-year period. More than ten years ago, I experienced clinical psychosis. This was triggered by a synthesis of Plato's Republic with Neitzsche's Thus Spake Zarathustra. My metaphysics became extremely chaotic. I voluntarily spent a week in a psychiatric hospital to get the mania that made me vulnerable to the event under control. The Objectivist philosophy of Ayn Rand helped me to reestablish a stable and secure sense of reality afterwards. For that, I will forever be in debt to her. Though, I do not dogmatically accept everything that she said.

After my recovery, I discovered that I have slight neural damage resulting from a head injury as a toddler. Since I have had this my entire life, I have very well adapted. The main effect of this is that my short-term memory can store 5+or-2 random bits of data at a time where the average short-term memory capacity is 7+or-2 random bits of data. In spite or because of this, I have a very high IQ which can cause me to come off as a little bit of an absent-minded professor.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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... You value stimulating, deep conversations.
... You find anything I said intriguing.
... you would like to help me grow the North Metro-Austin Poly community.
... You find my ideas about religious discordian fellowship with no belief requirements interesting.
... You just want to get to know me better.
... you have read this far and have not been scared off yet.