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37 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:02am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm always aware of the big picture but can't steer myself clear of the beautiful details that dot this brief journey.
I love doing things other New Yorkers enjoy...riding bikes, collecting records, dancing in the burg of william, caring for a seasonal beard.
but I'm also very open and perhaps unexpectedly candid for a soft spoken gentleman.
I'm also a pretty good baker and host.
also I should stop looking for a girl and let one find me.
What I’m doing with my life
making bad TV less bad.
I’m really good at
making tortillas
minimalism (save for a couple thousand records. and a closet full of clothes.)
making decisions
playing drums and singing along with the harmonies
I'm also pretty tactile, sensual and affectionate.
The first things people usually notice about me
they never tell me. should i ask? do i need to know this? damn what if other people's view of me is totally different to the self image i've cultivated over the past 3 decades? i don't think i can deal with a shattered reality tonight, okc.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
i eat anything but only have meat cravings for pig. I try to be local/seasonal and focus meals on farmer's market purchases. always open to new restaurants/flavors, i listen to most things that are not top 40, i netflix from time to time.
records I collect are mostly 50s-60s jazz, electronica from 80s to present with a heavy UK slant and a broad swath of rock and pop. I have a lot of the classics in many genres. including metal!
The six things I could never do without
my senses and my penis. i like using all of these on a daily basis.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how tired i am of being told to buy things
how many years we have till the earth is effed for good
why NYC has to be so loud compared to other big cities
what chocolate item I will bake next
On a typical Friday night I am
isn't wednesday really the new friday? everyone goes to bed early on friday now, i hear.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't really do well with chicks who are into sports and/or wear ball caps.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
any of these apply:

you work with your hands.
you can be found at the beach most weekends in the summer
you're not weirded out by unconventional sexuality or grey areas. (GGG?)
your feet can be exposed without people running in terror.
you are confident in both body and mind.
you like spicy food/experimental food/open to whatever.
you often wear a lot of jewelry.
who cares! just be the feminist you say you are and make the first move.