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nstay

36 / M / straight / Single

Singapore, Singapore

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5' 6" (1.70m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Transportation
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Malay (Okay), Chinese (Okay)

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I am musical, tempremental, and passionate.

My Self-Summary

simple yet complicated, lives life to the fullest and loves to the fullest, hard and tough on the outside but soft and vulnerable on the inside.
known to be funny, spontaneous and the life of the party but there's a quiet, thoughtful side that many don't see.

I’m really good at

music? i can play the guitar relatively well, as well as the bass. i have a band and we've been playing for the past five years. i've been told that i sing well, although i do get a case of "mike fright"... i freak out on stage and i suddenly get very soft spoken...

i can draw pretty well... so i'm told... i personally don't think so...

i can make people laugh; i'm a pretty funny guy although my humour tends to be really corny and crude... oh well, as long as people laugh, who the hell cares?

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

i basically read anything that interests me. i don't have any favourite authors but i enjoy books by Graham Hancock and Stephen King. i basically read anything, from autobiographies to serious fiction / non-fiction right down to graphic novels by Frank Miller or even Marvel / DC comics.

i'm a great fan of music... music has "saved" me on many occasions. i'm mostly a rock & roll person, but i don't mind house, jazz or folk music, but i draw the line at country and western :P

i eating anything that moves except liver and salted vegetables... other then that, i'm open to try new things. basically a coffee shop sort of guy but i do enjoy the occasional steak... oh and i can cook an ok meal if required...

The six things I could never do without

1) God - i'm not super religious but i cannot deny His influence on my life.
2) my iPod - no music no life!
3) a book or the day's newspaper (or both) - for now it's The Journeyer by Gary Jennings.
4) my Mobile Phone - sad but true :(
5) my cigarettes - another thing that's sad but true :(
6) Starbucks coffee - a tall hazelnut latte if you please!

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Life...

On a typical Friday night I am

out drinking with friends either at our favourite watering hole or simply at Starbucks Simei...

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

i'm a single dad... i have a 7 year old daughter

You should message me if

you're looking for someone to talk to and laugh with (or at), someone who loves music and reading but can party like an animal too, someone who can be stable and yet dysfunctional. hey, i'm being honest here!