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30 San Jose, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jan 21
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Other and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I feel like I should preface everything by saying that I start chatting to people about stuff, foregoing introduction.

I'm comforable with silence so I'm not a chatterbox, but I love to engage in weird observations, existentialism, theoretical nonsense. Parallel dimensionality.
I collect coins; it's my connection to history and what has passed.
I'm easy-going, and get along with most people. Except douche nozzles.
Umm, forgot what I was gonna say...
Did some college, went to massage school for a while. Worked at art stores and frame shop. I draw some (not all the time). I love giving massages/rubs. There's something satisfying about using your hands. Which is why I went back to massage school to get my license.
What I’m doing with my life
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Moved into my new apartment north of downtown San Jose. Close enough to walk everywhere. Far enough away from drunken fools.

Just became the account manager, so I now I hate my ringtone. Lots of calls from the employees. I'm still working on my hobbies and interests, and always starting new things. I've a problem finishing projects.
I’m really good at
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-most things. If I have the time, resources and reference materials I can figure most things out, but it helps a lot to have someone show you how things work. I was pretty decent at math, and doodled up a bunch of patterns, geometric designs.
The first things people usually notice about me
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is the white hair liberally mixed with the black and odd choice in glasses. And altered sense of fashion, sometimes. Lately I got contacts though, after wearing glasses everyday for 20 years.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love movies from many genres, including the cheesy and the quirky, the weird and the foreign.
Scott Pilgrim vs the World is my new favoritest movies of all time.
I usually listen to older rock. For newer music, I like White Stripes, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Portishead (I know, not really new), Valerie June, Black Keys, Lorde.
I read a lot of sci-fi, thrillers. Still working on the Robert Jordan Wheel of Time series.
Poetry of William Blake, Jim Morrison. Need to check out Yeats.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Something to keep my hands and mind busy.

*I just reread this. Apparently I don't need food and water to survive; I live on knowledge and stimulation.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Parallel realities, the future, what is and what will never be.
What movies I haven't seen, and should.
What music I still need to listen to.
What books I should read next.
All the pet projects I have going on and need to start: Building a gun range, scrounging up firewood, building wood racks for drying, distilling eucalyptus oil from the trees out back, bagging up the sand from the little creek, working on my art, clearing acres of weeds, rebuilding a fireplace.
I'm doing a lot of physical projects/handyman types deals right now.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
working, watching a movie or hanging out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I spent the summer between my 8th and 9th grade year out at our house in the country. First day of high school rolls around, I can't remember a single one of my friends names. Not aquaintance types, but the friends I spend actual time with. Early-onset alzheimers, perhaps?
You should message me if
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you have a good head on your shoulders, not overly sensitive and not a drama machine. If you wanna shoot the shit, I like to chat about most anything, especially the ridiculous.