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54 M Portland, OR

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UPDATE; 3/30/2014
Hello... Thanks for stopping by. Don't be shy.. If you have a question just ask.. Drop me a note, say hello... I promise never to bite. Well I may under the right circumstances. ;)

The magic begins when two hearts touch. The miracle of the harmonious music two souls make when in concert with each other is what I seek.

I'm looking for the ONE woman to share life with. Romantic evenings, exploring nature, hours of stimulating conversations.. a woman who's a cuddle bug, she likes the secure feeling when her man gobbles her up in a big hug.

The greatest gift a man can be given is the love, passion and heart of a good woman. The gift of a best friend, lover, the perfect partner to share life with. I desire to find this blessing.

Looking for a woman that has compassion for all in this world. An understanding woman that knows I'm not crazy when I'm grumbling at the TV because my team is losing.

Call me old fashioned. Guy sees girl. Guy romances girl. they live happily ever after. Yes I'm a hopeless romantic man. Oh I'm tough but I also desire those tender moments with MY someone special.

I'm a manly man, a gentleman. I'm a reformed ex-bad boy that is still a little rough around the edges on occasion but mainly a civilized blue collar man. My life changed when I became a Christian man. My faith is important to me and desire a woman equally yoked. I still can be a handful but I left crazy on the bus. Well but that depends on which friend you ask. I am not some needy lonely man. I don't need a woman, I desire one. I'm not perfect and I don't expect you to be perfect either. I want that first last kiss.

I'm honest. Extremely confident but very humble. I'm a giver, an affectionate man seeking the same in a woman.

Below are some of my interests. I have many interests. I'm a thinker, dreamer , writer, poet, photographer. Most of all I'm a man with faith, I'm a man of character...

My mother God rest her, taught me to have manners
Old fashioned respectful gentleman. sports minded, adventurous, fun loving, military veteran.
A lover of all the pacific northwest has to offer. Camping, the coast, hiking, picnics in the park.
Summer zoo concerts, water front blues, live music downtown.
Seeking the one and only woman that fits.. Seeking the one that is a kindred spirit. OK we both could settle but why. Reach for stars.

I am seeking one great love affair with the woman that makes me giggle with joy even when i am at work just thinking about her. I desire to give her a million kisses and a million more. To give her my every breath till my last. I am not on here to play games or for a hook up. I miss romance. I .. want to find love again. i wish... i desire to spend a life time with one woman.. Just don't know where to find her.

I know I ware my heart on my sleeve. I know I should rewrite my profile and sell my self. But I'm a man of emotions. I speak from my heart. I've loved .. I've felt pain. I've lost family, loved ones, I've battled life, climbed to the top of the mountain and fell to the bottom battling cancer. But I've found out it's tough trying to keep an Irishman down. With FAITH, love, a strong spirit anything is possible. So in some parts of my profile I may come across crass, mad, upset, a hopeless romantic, a raving idiot. I can't help what you may think of me from rambling words on some stupid dating site. This I do know. I'm a gentleman, I have a great story to tell and a heart bigger than you could ever dream of.

Update. Today.. For those that answer the question ...if in a committed relationship you meet and find yourself attracted to another you explore both relationships .... Take a hike. Everyday I see a hottie.. Everyday I lust... Everyday WE ALL desire something. I'm a ONE WOMAN MAN. NO SHARING. If at the first chance you want to explore another man .... Well don't let the door hit you in the ass on the way out.. Relationships aren't easy. But when you find the ONE .... Oh... What roll a coaster love is.. ISN'T IT .... Isn't it a heck of a ride ... Giving up or giving into temptation is easy. Saying THATS MY MAN through thick or thin defines commitment...

Update .... Wild Bill--Tarzan--a paradox of a man seeks....... The woman that fits. Strong hands, arms to make you feel safe.. Tender heart that will show you love, passion. Wit / intelligence that will keep you on your toes, keep you laughing, thinking, or piss you off. But the heart of this man is ever lasting. ..

Update 7-17-12. You can teach an old dog new tricks. Why is it the good women run from manly men that are a little rough around the edges. I'm educated, abreast of worldly events, I have more than one functioning brain cell. I've learned from my mistakes....find the GOOD woman. Don't like honesty , well you won't like me. I've lived life on the wild side and that all changed when I was diagnosed with cancer. That was 7 years ago. I'm a survivor. Now I'm living a more tame life....well...for the most part.. I'm ready to dance again...any good women out there?

Update 7-10-12. I'm been to heck and back when it comes to relationships. Went on deployment in the Army came home after being gone a year and my wife is 6 months pregnant. Do the math, marriage over. That was years and years ago, but mix in some crazy ass choices since then... My antenna is broken. Been single now for awhile. Long while... I'm a confident manly guy. The only thing in life I can't do is find a good woman. I'm just a guy looking for the right gal. I'm not ready to get married or settle down. Although I'm not opposed to either... one day. I'm far from perfect. I have flaws and expect you do too. I have many passions that I don't expect you to share in all of them. After all we are two separate individuals. What I believe in, what I like, what I desire you may not. Thats what makes an exciting relationship. I don't want a clone of myself. I want a woman that excites me, challenges me, moves me, shares her passions, shows me her world. Together we merge into something special. I don't know what to say. I call my self a writer but for the life of me can't describe myself. I'm just me. A humble, honest, old fashioned, loving manly man looking for the RIGHT woman.

Below is my friends summary of me... Out of respect for her and her passion for wanting her friend to have love again it reads as follows.....

I’m a hardworking Christian man.
I attend church although not regularly.
As a steel worker, I get up each day at 4 a.m., put on my
steel-toed boots, wear a hard hat, and work lifting steel all day.
I get plenty of exercise!

You can depend on me to be a devoted one-woman man who will cherish you. You will also find me to be a romantic man.
I am loyal, caring, loving, and honest. Communication is the
foundation of a solid relationship and you will find me to be a
good conversationalist and a good listener. You will enjoy my wit and humor.

You will find in me a warm and caring man who will protect you and one you can trust in and lean on. I desire and want to share the happily-ever-after dream with the right woman. But then again does happy ever after exist or pure myth. I want a woman that desires a hard working family comes first kind of guy. I'm a sports nut, works hard, plays hard, crashes hard, snores, pees standing up, pool playing, music loving, protective pet bull, art lover, affectionate, manly man that's looking for the woman that freely walks around and admits yes that's my man proudly.
What I’m doing with my life
Living life.
Doing the everyday daily work grind.
In my free time working on writing childerns books. Writing poems, randon other creative thoughts or using my camera trying to capture the perfect photo.
If my creative juices aren't flowing you will find me at the gym, taking the dog for a walk, in the kitchen trying to come up with the perfect steak, or chasing my golf ball around the course.
Love the great outdoor activities Oregon has to offer, camping, hiking, or just taking a relaxing day at one of the local parks.
Enjoys the local music scene, the hidden great eats, playing pool, water front concerts.
I’m really good at
Photography-a skill and hobby I began as a photojournalist in the
Total sports fan—Go Ducks! Blazers! Winter Hawks!
Driving along the coast, for the scenery and new adventures
Camping and playing pool
Future Goal—I enjoy writing and one day hope to finish my collection of children’s books
People skills. I get along well with most people
Commitment, loyalty to the important people in my life
Good at taking naps with my gal. .. :)
The first things people usually notice about me
my eyes, my smile, my gentleman manors, ? you tell me I have no clue.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read mainly newspapers and magazines keeping up with current
events, the Bible, anything that inspires me to grow.
Movies and shows— a good drama or who done it, a side busting comedy, a movie with great special effects or stunning cinemaphotography.
Food—I like simple whole foods and am willing to try new
Music—many genres but especially love the blues, 70s 80s rock roll, mo town classics, most anything except rap.
The six things I could never do without
Faith.... never ending
Love.... everlasting
Honesty.... always
Intimacy ...duh those that touch my heart
You in my life
I spend a lot of time thinking about
When is woman going to stand up, take the bull by the horns and say this is my type of man. I have a brick for a head and little hints don't make it past neanderthal man. Some times a man has to be reminded to
My faith and family
What is my teenage daughter going to ask for next and how much is that going to cost me.
Are the Cubs or my Lions ever going to win .
Where is the next great little hole in the wall restaurant
When am I going to see the twinkle in your eyes.
On a typical Friday night I am
out with the boys shooting pool or staying home with my daughter
watching movies. Catching up on much needed sleep or getting things ready for a weekend road trip to?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am hopeful to meet the woman who will mean everything to me.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–56
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
If you are brave enough. You're old fashioned and you desire a man to chase after you long after he already has you.
You must be ready to date or at least get acquainted. You like to dance, you know how to spoil your man, you are affectionate.
You are looking for a man of good character.
You want to have fun and be treated with respect.
You like to laugh.
Send me a messge if we share things in common. Remember I can't read minds so if I interest you at least say hello. Big bear hugs. Jim