After spending much time messaging and getting to know many people (online dating) its just never worked out... Seems most of the serious women who actually know what commitment is are Christian... While I am deep, I don't follow any "god"... And dating someone who is at this point isn't something I'm looking for.
So, I've basically given up finding someone who I'm compatible with... I know I'm worth the wait... and hopefully the right lady will read this and know she is as well and we'll talk.. Till then I'll be content not being on here (much).