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24 M Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 23–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:35pm
5′ 10″ (1.79m)
Body Type
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Wants kids
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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My father once expressed to me his concern about me being 'alone in New York', way from family in Germany. I replied that "I'm not alone in New York" whereas he then said: "But you're different..."

Just like a chewing gum that gets stuck to your soles, being different - and I am sure the majority of the gay/bi community has experienced the same - has stuck to me throughout my whole life. I was always 'different' and it came with just as many sorrows as it has caused me pleasures. But the best part is that actually, in fact, we're all different. Only the ones who change the world live by it though.
And that's how I approach my work.

I am always impatient and I am aware that sometimes I really need to make sure to not let my emotions impact my decisionmaking too much because I am a passionate one. I usually eat too fast, I run crazy sprints on the treadmill and I usually already laugh my balls off when the person hasn't even gotten to the punch line of their joke yet. No worries though, for the certain 'moments' I certainly do take my time.

And if you had three different wines in front of you, I'd be the medium bodied one, (not bone-) dry, earthy that has an original and acquired bouquet but a pineapple finish.

I secretly dislike everyone who doesn't know Belle and Sebastian, I read out loud in between two lines and I find nothing more uncomfortable than underwear and tuition.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Well first of all, fellas, I'm not wasting it on GrindR or Scruff anymore. Yes. I came free. I'm off that drug, for good. Thankfully

I think it's important to often change this part of my profile. After a hell lot of growing up that I had to do in my college years, things have now finally become serious! Dead serious !The work I do on my career is more fulfilling than it has ever been before, I can have 10 hour work days seven days a week if I choose to (I set my priorities for free time though - very important!). Things are slowly taking shape and everything I do just feels so right and so many people are on board with me. It feels like a movement with a momentum that finally sparked. I really am in the right place at the right time now and I would love to share that with someone.

I seize my life. And I turn it into songs... many of them

And sometimes I stand and watch the annoyed faces of people hurrying down the stairs into a subway station where you can still see the train levaving. It satisfies me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making music. I talk about music. I compose music. I hear music. I listen to music. I produce music. I edit music. I conduct music. I arrange music. I analyzse music. I condemn music. I adore music. I hate music. I love music. I announce music. I dance to music.

And I'm really good at constituting the fact that it is ok to not use two consecutive parentheses if the end of the content of a parentheses ends with a smiley (like this one for example :-)
I uninhibitedly take the freedom, without asking I take this freedom, to call this an unwritten contemporary societal law. Period. .
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That my hosting skills are quite loverly, that I don't eat mushrooms or anything that comes out of water (unless it's a hot guy in bathing shorts walking out of the ocean with an OldSpice in his hand followed by a white horse)!

I love French Fries and I eat desert first.
And I have a dark red spot in between my eyes.
I tell them it's my European Enrique-Iglesias knock off birthmark.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Finished Hermann Hesse's complete literary heritage
Oh and am a Freud fan.
But really I dig BREAKING BAD !Yo !

I'm not even getting started with my music taste because it is epically eclective and very very specific. But let me throw out there that I am a huge huge fan of Flying Lotus
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Piano
2) My Mighty Handful
3) TED Talks
4) Stimulants
5) Sun
6) Children
7) chronological numbering of the six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The six things I could never do without - I spend SO much time thinking about them.

Or maybe what the seventh thing would be

Or in what order I put them

And why I like men with ADHD

And what it is that so bluntly turns me off when a man's only forte are shirtless pictures
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm a nighowl. You might get a text from me at 11pm "Yo - beer. now. barcade. cya".
Since I am a Freelancer I can really decide when I want to do my work, and sometimes that happens on a Friday night, yes.

I think one of the biggest luxuries in my life is the fact that I don't have a certain work 9-5 work schedule I have to follow. I just love that.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I can't brush my teeth and pee at the same time. For real.

I can't yawn when I have a bad conscience
You should message me if
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you like rollercoasters and French Fries.
But if you don't like French Fries you can message me too, ok?