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26 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 22–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:20am
Pacific Islander, White
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Banking / Finance
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm a big fan of doing it for the story even if the story never gets told, and I'll try anything once (for science!).
What I’m doing with my life
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Currently settled into the white collar world, but I try to spend as much of my free time as I can outside to make up for being locked behind a desk all day. Lifting, running, hiking (read: trail running), cycling, and stealing playgrounds from children.

Oh and moving happy hour outside whenever possible.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.

Seriously though, I eat six times a day.

I'm also pretty good at bocce.
The first things people usually notice about me
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There's not much middle ground for me between passable business casual/professional and gym clothes. I think it's more of a result of my work schedule than anything else though.

I'm also usually pretty animated about whatever I'm doing/talking about. Must be from having loud friends and an even louder family.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I have a pretty steady blog roll and podcast diet going of: JoeMyGod, Dan Savage, Chad Smith/Dan Green (JTSStrength), Dave Tate (EliteFTS), 70sBig, TED, XKCD, and Johnny McGovern when I can stand to listen to celebrity gossip for more than five seconds (so pretty much never)

I'm a gigantic book worm. I think my all-time favorite is Ordinary People by Judith Guest. Some others in no particular order are: Ender's Game, The Tender Bar, The Ethical Slut (this doesn't mean I agree with everything in it), Destroy the Opposition, The Evolution of Dave Tate, SM101, Inventing Money, and It Gets Better. How's that for diversity?

Movies: I have this Saturday/Sunday morning habit of finding and watching the most ridiculous movies available on Netflix. Zero regrets.

TV Shows: I'm not much of a TV watcher, but what I've got for you is Archer, Band of Brothers, Deadliest Warrior, most things found on the History Channel, Boy Meets World (a friend bought the entire

Music: from Andres Segovia to Andre 3000, Armin Van Buuren, The Knux, Goldfinger (throwback), Ricardo Arjona, Frank Sinatra, Johnny Cash, Goldie, The Decemberists.

Food: everything in moderation. Or excess. Whichever.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can sneakily listen to music at work. It's the one drawback to an otherwise perfect employment situation.

That and WHO BLOCKS YOUTUBE. Seriously. It's like throwing a shoe.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Training to become a ninja and out with friends.

You can take that as seriously as you wish.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a huge dork.

Don't tell anyone.
You should message me if
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You're not a huge fan of "normal" and you would make a fairly decent getaway driver.

Acronyms and things: Queer, GGG, SSC, RACK, RIP ODB