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57 M Astoria, NY

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6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Concerned and considerate.
Low key and weathered.
Quality over quantity seeker.

What I have learned is, relations work ONLY when there is physical attraction, emotional connection and willingness to compromise. In that sequence.
(And) to make things even more difficult, even if all above is met, by the time one adds the need for commonalities, the need for compatible preferences (public or private), AND THEN, by the time “the big three” are put on the table (religion, politics and sex), it really does make a lot of sense why is so difficult for someone to find and pair with the “right one”.

I do see my up to now life as a series of events and people that have taken me not where I wanted to go, but where the lessons were.
Failure and success in life are very subjective terms.

I am here to (potentially) connect with someone who thinks / acts / behaves / views life and the world in a similar way so we can make friends.

And a foot note........

I wish you all to experience love.
Not the kind that comes out of mathematical equations, education degree matching and bank account compatability.
All that is fine, and if it comes along is fine too, but love is beyond all that ...... otherwise, diplomas hanging on walls do not keep anyone warm at night, nor they have ever held anyone's hand when sick.

So........ yea..... look for that kind of love...... the one beyond logic. Actually, you don't have to look for it, you just have to be open to it and not closed minded...... LOVE WILL FIND YOU.
And many times that kind of love comes as a storm and leaves shortly there after...... some times with destruction....... and life long lasting memories and a smile.
Even if short lived, is well worth it.

Safe travels.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to deal with what life has delt me.
Trying to do the least amount of damage.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Intense relationships.

And making and fixing things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Simple.... pragmatic.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Anything that makes me dream. Rap and disco music do not.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Beyond “life sustaining anythings”, I could never do without emotions and human contact..... hm ..... make that “intelligent” human contact.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How easily we all forget what the most important and irreplaceable things in life are.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
... doing typical things
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A. My life's plan was based on a faulty assumption that in life, "if you are focused at, and work hard for, you will get what you want", as opposed to "in life you get what you get".
I am all learn-ed now.

B. I don’t like ketchup.

C. I put ice cubes in my coffee.

D. I dislike ice cubes in my water ..... I know ... weird.

E. Here is another shocker ….. I am not into sports.

For anything more private and juicer than above, one has to wait.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–75
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
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Message me if you are "weathered"...... .

... and if you are nice to people even when there is no benefit from doing so.

... and if you know how to say "please" and "thank you" to the same people as above.


Most everybody uses these terms.....
Be more creative !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

sassy ....
zest for life..
love my job.....
grab a drink ....
love to travel ....
honest to a fault .....
hopeless romantic....
passionate about life....
living life to the fullest .....
the glass "half whatever" ...
work hard and play harder.....
looking for a partner in crime....
"then it would not be private"......
never have a typical Friday night.....
having / living a happy life and need nobody ....

We see / value things differently if:
You believe that education and how many languages one speaks, or how many stamps they have on their passports classifies one as a “good person”
You equate schooling with knowledge of life.

Keep walking if you have or are:
Good at everything.
Better than others.
Mad at the world.
Self centered.
Always right.
Know it all.
Seen it all.
Bad ass.
Wise ass.
Smart ass.
(actually any kind of ass)

Some thoughts:
Having a house in CT, a house upstate, Hamptons... etc ..... well.... not indicative of one's character.
Taming Everest is easier than taming one's self.

nuff said for now.