Low key and weathered.
Quality over quantity seeker.
What I have learned is, relations work ONLY when there is physical attraction, emotional connection and willingness to compromise. In that sequence.
(And) to make things even more difficult, even if all above is met, by the time one adds the need for commonalities, the need for compatible preferences (public or private), AND THEN, by the time “the big three” are put on the table (religion, politics and sex), it really does make a lot of sense why is so difficult for someone to find and pair with the “right one”.
I do see my up to now life as a series of events and people that have taken me not where I wanted to go, but where the lessons were.
Failure and success in life are very subjective terms.
I am here to (potentially) connect with someone who thinks / acts / behaves / views life and the world in a similar way so we can make friends.
And a foot note........
I wish you all to experience love.
Not the kind that comes out of mathematical equations, education degree matching and bank account compatability.
All that is fine, and if it comes along is fine too, but love is beyond all that ...... otherwise, diplomas hanging on walls do not keep anyone warm at night, nor they have ever held anyone's hand when sick.
So........ yea..... look for that kind of love...... the one beyond logic. Actually, you don't have to look for it, you just have to be open to it and not closed minded...... LOVE WILL FIND YOU.
And many times that kind of love comes as a storm and leaves shortly there after...... some times with destruction....... and life long lasting memories and a smile.
Even if short lived, is well worth it.