I am not looking for a match...... I am looking for a fire.
but.... lets first start with some social mingling.
Ultimatley I would like to connect with a weathered woman, one who knows how to love (and desires to be loved) outside laundry lists of demands, (or at least has very minimal ones), and her primary search in life is for "emotional highs" and not for academic / financial matching credentials.
No disrespect to anyone who has worked hard to better themselves and is enjoying a comfortable life, but comfort brings conditional love, giving and taking.
My story reads “has been bumpy and I have bruises and scars”
The experience has made me very truthful, accepting, giving, compassionate, loving and humble.
I would wish to share that all with an extraordinary woman and to build a relation based on chemistry, attraction and a lot of respect.
Until then, I am looking for friends.
And I make a very good and dependable one myself.
Now back to "my self-summary"
All my stats are truthful. Pictures are current.
If information is within your range, and if pictures appeal to you, please read on; keep in mind that this is just a summary and not a autobiography.
I come with emotions and ability to love.
I am low key, very easy to deal with and very dependable.
I do not have lists of things I am good at to present you with.
The only thing I'll give you is my writing…..
Read thru my lines, read over my lines, read under my lines, read between my lines, just read.
If you find anything interesting, come and explore.
Be genuine, unpretentious and truthful to yourself and to me.
If you like me, and if I like you, we look more into it, and maybe stay and dock together.
If not, no hard feelings, we all sail to new and different seas.
Who someone is, is a lot bigger than what could ever fit in this box.
If we factor-in that (for anything to take root) attraction and chemistry is needed first, this medium really is a very poor choice for trying to figure out compatibility.
We can only find all that out about someone else thru real life interaction. Reading what someone wrote in their profile will not do it.
Anything anyone puts in their profile about themselves needs to be verified in the outside world anyway (mine included).
What should matter (to anyone) is how one interacts with the world, how one treats others and how one behaves in a relation.
What defines one as a person is, how one uses his or her power over people who either have little or have no power at all.
What defines one is if one is nice to others even when there is no benefit from doing so.
What matters is if one can love and knows how to do it.
What matters is if one can put others first before one's self.
I am looking to connect with people of substance, be a new friendship, or be more.
Expect and be open minded.