I've come to realize how important it is for me to have kink as part of my relationships. I'd love to have the freedom and comfort to express my kinks and have my partners feel similarly free to express hers, whether or not we choose to pursue them.
Ideally, I'd like to meet someone to explore new sights, new sounds, and tastes with me. Someone that's as ambitious as I am and enthusiastically supports me in my endeavors. Someone that's curious about the world and likes to keep up with what's going on in it. Someone that thinks that staying in to cook dinner together and eating it with a bottle of wine makes a really good Friday night. Someone who will be silly with me. Someone that will take care of me while I'm sick (and vice versa). Someone that loves me despite my flaws. Who is close with her family and one day might want one of her own.
Someone that shares the same kinks as me and wants to indulge in them together on occasion.
Here are some things that turn me on/I'm curious about:
~sexual fluidity and threesomes (I've enjoyed some mff threesomes, and I'm interested in exploring my bi-curiosity in an MMF threesome).
~tying you up.
~watching porn together.
~ass play - I like giving and receiving and would definitely like to try playing with a strap-on.
~being turned on by hearing about/watching my lovers' sex-capades with other men.
~and a bunch of other kinky things we can discuss later.
Vanilla things I like: Travel, long boozy dinners and brunches with good friends, good movies, long walks around the city, going to see plays or music, and voraciously consuming information about what's going on in the world.
What I want to be doing more of: traveling, working on creative side projects, and volunteering.
You: Open-minded, GGG, lives locally, liberal, curious, ambitious, caring, honest. Maybe a little bit nerdy.
Me: Curious, cute, scruffy, liberal, ambitious.
If any of this interests you, definitely message me.
I'm also open to the possibility of something casual, as well as meeting up with a couple.