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nyc_metal

34 / M / straight / Single

Astoria, New York

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 3" (1.90m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Taurus
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am outgoing, fun, and laid back.

My Self-Summary

Hi there. I'm a 34 year old IT employee of a college. Also a musician (guitar, bass, keyboard), scuba diver, and overall fun guy. I'm laid back, easy going and like to avoid drama. I do however, love to go out and have a good time, so the laid back part is far from 24/7. I don't have any kids, but I do have a cat who is absolutely wonderful. I strive to keep life simple and fun. Would like to start as friends, and if it becomes something more, cool. I mainly rock out to metal, rock, industrial, and classical music, but sometimes groove to other genre's as well.

What I’m doing with my life

Working in the technology field by day, and playing shows throughout the northeast region with my band by night. Having as good a time as I can whenever I can.

I’m really good at

Entertaining, playing music, fixing computers and networks, having a good time, holding a conversation as long as I'm interested in the subject.

The first things people usually notice about me

My height, my eyes, and my hair.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: The last book I read was Mister B. Gone by Clive Barker, which I really enjoyed. Other favorites are The Dark Tower series by Stephen King, Motley Crue - The Dirt, and The Vampire Lestat.

Movies: Evil Dead/Army of Darkness, Dreamcatcher, Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, Matrix, 12 Monkeys, Fight Club, Sin City, Batman Begins & Dark Knight, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Donnie Darko, Secret Window, Sin City, Grindhouse/Planet Terror.. I could go on and on.

TV shows: Right now pretty much only one.. True Blood.

Music: Motley Crue, Megadeth, Kiss, NIN, Ministry, Bullet for my Valentine, Frontline Assembly, Metallica, Faith no More, Type O Negative, Slayer, Tool, Pink Floyd, KMFDM, Thrill Kill Kult.. again, I could go on and on.

Food: It's probably best if I just say the few things I don't like - cooked carrots, canned peas, and squash. Other than those I enjoy all foods, and indulge in those that I really like.

The six things I could never do without

My family
My friends
My cat
My band
My guitars and bass
An active sex life
My job

Thats seven plus.. please don't tell! :P

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The next show, women, technology, music, peace, problem solving, analyzing, and thinking about what else I think about so I can list it here. :P

On a typical Friday night I am

Playing a show or out with friends.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'll let you know when you ask me.

You should message me if

You like to have fun, are easy going, and wont try to take away my independence.