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38 Brooklyn, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Feb 24
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Judaism, and laughing about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly), Russian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm a femme lesbian writer who is funny, charming, intelligent, romantic, shy at first, kind, considerate, down-to-earth, really bad at writing descriptions of myself and a good listener.

I'm a writer by trade, mostly entertainment articles and a lot of queer stuff. Like every other Brooklynite, I'm working on a novel.

For me, an intellectual connection is the most important thing and I am looking for a monogamous relationship and some new friends.

I am not very political and I don't have cats so I guess that makes me a failure as a lesbian.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm working as a freelance writer and transcriber for various clients and pursuing more traditional employment in a still questionable economy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Wasting time on the Internet (why, look, I'm doing it now!). Spouting out obscure entertainment-related trivia. Winning contests. And sighing. I excel at sighing and furrowing my brow.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Brown eyes; curly hair. The fact that my head is stuck in a book.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: She's Come Undone, Sheila Levine is Dead and Living in New York, any book by the excellent queer writer Julia Watts, any book by Kate Christensen, Plain Jane by Eve Horowitz, anything by Leslea Newman, Lucky Star by Joe Queenan, Crush by Jane Futcher, anything by Fran Lebowitz.


Kind Hearts & Coronets

Next Stop Greenwich Village

The Boys in the Band

Pariah is the best lesbian film ever made. Hands down. Netflix it now. I'll wait.

Music: Steely Dan. Steely Dan. Also, Steely Dan.

Pet Shop Boys, David Bowie, The Rolling Stones, Talking Heads, The Cars, Grace Jones, Dire Straits, Crosby, Stills and Nash, Bruno Mars, Gossip, Maroon 5

Yes, I said Maroon 5. Snicker if you like.

Food: Mexican, British, Irish, French, Italian, Japanese
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My parents, though they frequently drive me insane
My home, because I like shelter from the cold winters
Writing, because I might go insane without it
Turkish food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My worries. I'm Jewish and we're an anxious people.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at home, writing or relaxing. Or sometimes, at a singles event, which, trust me, if you haven't been, is like a fate worse than death.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Sure, I'll talk about private things on OkCupid. That sounds like a SWELL idea. {rolling eyes}
You should message me if
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You're a nice person.

Ideally, I want a partner in crime, an adventurer. I want to go to a movie together and talk about it over a meal for hours. I want us to nauseate people by how in love we are. I don't want someone whose head is in an iPhone 24/7.

I like folks who are good conversationalists, non-judgmental, honest, nice, not addicted to anything but life, and bring something unique to the table.

I am open to meeting people who aren't in New York, as I think placing a boundary on love can only limit me. I'm particularly interested in hearing from anyone in Philadelphia, as I fell in love with it a few years ago and am looking for any reason in the world to return to Rittenhouse Square and the museum.