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49 New York, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35-65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:59pm
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Not at all
Might want kids
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I moved to New York in 1988 and have no plan to leave anytime soon. My life is great but it would be wonderful to have a partner to share it with.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a journalist.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am a good listener, empathetic and show up.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My green eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Nancy Mitford, E.F. Benson and M.F.K. Fisher are favorite fiction authors. I try to read the Times each day, the New Yorker and Economist every week and the New York Review of Books whenever it arrives.

Movies: I am a gay man of a certain age so films like Now, Voyager, Mildred Pierce, Stella Dallas, etc...are favorites. Film Noir is a favorite genre. All that Heaven Allows, Imitation of Life, Written on the Wind and anything else by Douglas Sirk. Fellini, Fassbinder, Allen are all favorite film-makers. Anyone who knows the Japanese classics by Ozu, Mizoguchi, Naruse, etc...gets extra credit!
I also watch and enjoy some recent Hollywood stuff, it's like pizza, cupcakes and other junk food.

Shows: My favorite television shows are I Love Lucy, the Honeymooners, the Munsters, and anything else I watched in repeats as a child. I also enjoy documentaries, true-crime shows and nature programs.
My favorite Broadway shows are Gypsy, Follies and Book of Mormon

Music: Female vocalists with BIG voices, 70s and 80s music and classical music.

Food: I love good food. French and Italian are my favorite cuisines, but far from the only ones that I enjoy. Sometimes heavier German and Scandinavian food hits the spot. Japanese, Vietnamese, Korean, really just about every Asian cuisine is great to me. A hamburger or steak on a grill is hard to beat. Gummy Bears.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends, a good book, NYC, air conditioner, the ocean and my Macbook
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can be a better person. I also dream about settling down with a great man some day.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I usually meet friends for dinner, read a bit and then head to bed for a good night of sleep after a long week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I will tell you in person.