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nycphotomonkey

30 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 21–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:33pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Something of an introvert and a self admitted nerd/dork. I come off as shy and quiet until I get comfortable, after that it's a different story. Any chance for adventure is a must, and if it scares me, I HAVE to try it. I have a passion to learn new things, enjoy taking classes, and love traveling - especially if I get to fly. I'm a compulsive reader, a gym hater and a martial arts drifter. I love technology, gadgets and anything that makes me think I'm in the future. My sense of humor is admittedly odd, it may not always translate.

I'm looking for someone with their own drive for adventure, who won't mind my nerdy ways and possibly has their own. If you can teach me to dance, bonus points.

I'm absolutely terrible at writing first messages, can you forgive me for that?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a social worker in my current professional life. I'm reading when I have a free moment, dancing (badly) when I'm not paying attention, and writing/sketching for the hell of it. Sporadically doing some form of martial arts, physical activity and compulsively trying to learn new things.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making plans.
Baking - Eating what I bake.
Being a compulsive reader
Making a mess in the kitchen.
Being sarcastic.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't know, I've never asked. What did you notice?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books:

This list is actually gigantic, don't take this as anywhere near complete. I'm also constantly on the hunt for other good books, whatever the topic. Please don't hesitate to make recommendations.
The Book of the New Sun - Gene Wolfe
Sandman - Neil Gaiman
NightWatch - Terry Pratchett
Kafka on the Shore - Haruki Murakami
Bridge of Birds - Barry Hughart
Anything by Roger Zelazny
The Long Goodbye - Raymond Chandler

Movies:
Boondock Saints
Wall-E
Donnie Darko
Duel to the Death
Dogma

Food...
Pretty much anything, absolutely love Dim Sum though.

I don't actually watch TV, but netflix has got me watching Doctor Who at the moment. I'm starting to realize that I'm very behind on quite a few shows I should watch...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'm not so sure there's anything I could actually do without. You'd be surprised what you can manage...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why there is never a good photo of me.

Silly answers to strange questions.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with friends or catching up with sleep.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't drink beer, or coffee.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you want to. Don't worry, I don't bite!

For those who read this far, an update:

I know how frustrating it can be to work on a decent message and then here nothing back. So that I can do my part, if you message me, I'll send you something back.

If you send hello, you'll be getting some variation of that.

If you send me an actual message, you'll probably get an actual conversation, regardless of whether or not I think we'd work. I always appreciate the effort and I'll always try to reciprocate back.

IF I don't get back to you, feel free to poke me. I often check these on my phone, but I don't respond on it. Sometimes though, the fact that I checked it, makes me think I responded.

I promise, I'm not ignoring you.