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54 New York, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 45–56
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:00pm
5′ 0″ (1.52m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Judaism, and laughing about it
Graduated from law school
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Yiddish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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The path to grad school was not direct. There was a stint in art school resulting in a BFA, hitch-hiking in England and Scotland, a year in Paris, two months on my motorcycle, solo, taking my time to explore the south and southwest before ending up in the Bay Area for three years. Not to mention the misdemeanor arrests for civil disobedience and the FBI file. Today, I love my bike commute.

I've camped lots (can put up a tent in the rain), I know several really great knots and I love a good adventure, locally or not so locally. Many places left to explore. I'll just have to quit my job. On my dad's side, the family got kicked out of Spain during the Inquisition. On my mom's side, I'm a first generation American. I'm a secular, political Jew (yes, such a thing exists); my favorite holiday is Passover, but we've always celebrated National Present Day: 12/25.

My favorite alcoholic drink is champagne but a good IPA is great. Yes! to apple pie. I make good, strong coffee. I love tipping generously for good service. I know how to make hospital corners, challah, and other outdated things. I don't cook, but I can make the world's best omelet. And ratatouille from scratch. And complicated delicious salads. And thick soup. If you make dinner, I'll wash up.

Pathological optimism leaves me cold, but I'm even less interested in cynicism. I will go out of my way to patronize an independent bookstore. I'm passionate about unreasonable waste, among other things to get passionate about. I can fix an old wall. I can build a new one. I have tools.

I haven't lived in a house with a working TV since 1977, but I love the new version of Sherlock.

I try to do the right thing, not the easy thing.

My hair is not usually as tidy as it happens to be in my photos; the woman who cuts my hair tells me I'm not allowed to cover the grey. (I listen to her.)

I am a New Yorker, a single mom, and serious fun
What I’m doing with my life
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writing, and if what I do is effective, I get rich people (and entitities) to give their money to folks who could really use it. This is quite fun.

Being amazed by my kid, and learning to be a good parent through him.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
almost everything I do, because I do things I care about doing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
is that I seem taller than I am. Whatever.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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are much more satisfying to talk about in person.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) morning coffee, 2) smiles exchanged with my kid, 3) friends with whom I can scream, 4) the color black, 5) meaningful work, 6) good reading material. Dreams of future travel adventures makes lucky 7).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what I'm going to have for lunch.

How I might fabricate the artwork that comes to me in dreams.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing in the tub. I've never dropped a book yet.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't do Republicans. Actually, this is fairly well known in my circles.
You should message me if
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you've always wanted to see how a Brompton folds. Please skip me if you're seriously into golf or god.