I"m a writer. Absolutely love it. I write children's stories mainly but also have other projects in the works. Not all that much of a sports fan. I like baseball but don't obsess over it (unless the Yankees are in the world series). I love to cook especially those old family recipes. I enjoy the outdoors. I love grey skies and rainy weather. I enjoy taking long walks with that special someone. I like public displays of affection. I don't think there is anything wrong being affectionate in public just as long as it isn't obscene. I like to go bowling. I'm not that much of a dancer, but if the right one comes along she just might be able to get me dance a few steps. It's happened before.
Not a big fan for the bar or club scene. Got turned off by it a long time ago. I don't mind going out, but I prefer to spend quiet evenings with a woman alone having dinner, snuggled on the couch either watching a good movie or whatever else we might have in mind. There's always something to do when two people enjoy being with each other.
If you're not sure what you want, then move on. I'm looking for something real. Not into games. I don't cheat on anyone and I expect the same in a woman. If you have to cheat, then you shouldn't be in a relationship. It's as simple as that. I'm not the "friends with benefits" type and I'm not looking for that either. I'm not on here looking for a "booty call" or any one night stands or to simply get laid like most guys are. I believe in taking things slowly and getting to know a person above anything else no matter how long it takes. In my opinion the longer it takes the better. There is no need to rush into anything only to have things go sour in the end. My head has been played with way too much by women who all tell me just how perfect I am only to one day tell me that I will make someone else very happy someday. So if you're into games, then go play with someone else. If you're someone who lies to get what you want, then move on. I never lie to anyone and I expect the same. I'm not a user or an abuser like most men are in this world. And I am definitely not the controlling type either. I believe a relationship is a 50 / 50 partnership. I will not change who I am for you. If you're looking for someone who you can mold into your vision of the perfect man, you haven't found him here. If you can't accept me for who I am, than I am obviously not the one for you. I am as real as they come and I will not change for anyone no matter who you are because if you're not happy with who I am, then you'll never be happy with me and vice versa.
Other than that I am a guy that knows what he wants out of life and I am going to give it to myself on way or another!