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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 40-55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:56pm
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Post grad
Might want kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm just looking for a terrific woman to hang out with -- ideally for the rest of my life. I try not to take myself too seriously but I care deeply about my family, my work, and my friends. I have definite opinions about things but I try to be open to different points of view and new experiences. I'm trying to age gracefully while stubbornly clinging to what's left of my youth. I hope I always remain an optimist.

The inside (intellect, sense of humor, kindness, creativity, passion) is more important to me than the outside. Still, I would love to find a woman who can run a few miles with me and is always up for a vigorous hike in the woods.

Though not artistically creative, I have a great appreciation for the arts, architecture, and contemporary craft (e.g., ceramics, glass, furniture). I enjoy going to art museums and galleries here and when traveling. I'm a big fan of movies, mainstream, independent, and foreign. I love theater (more dramas & comedies than musicals) as well as live music.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Not as much as I should be romantically or I would not be here. But otherwise -- my work is enjoyable and challenging, my family and friends are great, my health is good, and I have many interests so I'm never bored.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I can write well. I'm a pretty good listener. I think I'm a good judge of character. I'm probably more fit than most people my age.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hopefully people perceive me as friendly and genuine. I can be somewhat intense at times (especially at work) but usually I'm in a good mood and enjoy talking with people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Angle of Repose, Invisible Man, Saturday (and others by I. McEwan), Any Human Heart (and others by W. Boyd), A Dirty Job (and others by C. Moore), Divisidero (and others by M. Ondaatje), P.G. Wodehouse, The Corrections, Super Sad True Love Story, The Kite Runner, All the Pretty Horses, Life of Pi, On Love, Corelli's Mandolin, Mila 18, Pillars of the Earth, American Pastoral, High Fidelity; books on history and evolutionary biology.

Movies: GoodFellas, Amelie, Henry V, Braveheart, Shakespeare in Love, Jeremiah Johnson, When Harry Met Sally, Gladiator, Monty Python & the Holy Grail, Cinema Paradiso, Platoon, Big, The Deer Hunter, Young Frankenstein, Jean de Florette, Saving Private Ryan, Ridicule, Caddyshack, Groundhog Day.

TV Shows: Modern Family, The Good Wife, The Simpsons, SportsCenter. (If I had HBO I'm sure the list would be longer, but then I'd read fewer books...)

Music: Iron & Wine, Ray LaMontagne, Over the Rhine, Neil Young, Beatles, Feist, the xx, Pretenders, Mayer Hawthorne, M. Ward, Real Estate, Bon Iver, Andrew Bird, Ivy, samba, bossa nova, old-school R&B, funk, baroque, Mozart, Debussy, classic rock and pop, etc.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
It would be very difficult to do without my family, my friends, my health, my job, my sense of humor, and running. Honorable mentions: the outdoors, travel, books, films, music, sports, wine, craft beer.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Work, family, friends, the future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Could be hanging out with friends, seeing a movie, or just relaxing at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a romantic. Not blindly so, or foolishly so. But even a generally pragmatic realist can enjoy a little romance.