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51 M Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 24
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Other, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Okay, I'm really not great at this's me in a nutshell. I'm a thinker, good listener/communicator, great friend---could be an AWESOME boyfriend (really! and I can't believe that I'm still single...), passionate and compassionate (mean-spirited people do not have a place in my life), down to earth, nature-loving, of Caribbean/Southern ancestry, a bit on the quiet side at first but loosen up nicely. Love classic and foreign films, build my own computers and generally have a voracious curious nature. I am a post-op female to male transguy who views himself as just a regular guy...I dunno, I'm much better at answering questions than creating summaries...

I am intelligent, attractive, and passionate
What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying it to the fullest! I have great friends, a wonderful family, a great support system, a pretty darn cool job...I'd really like to find that special someone to share life and fun times with. I'm always up for a road trip!
I’m really good at
Making people feel at ease. I've been told that I have a very "grounding" effect on others. I'm a pretty good cook, and if you're into Film History, I'm your guy!
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, my communication style (so I've been told), my easy-going nature.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I really enjoy short-story anthologies and essays. I really enjoy Dexter, Walking Dead, BBQ Pitmasters. Favorite movies: M, O Brother Where Art Thou?, Elling, Shadow of the Vampire. Music: Classic Jazz, Alternative, old school R&B, classical...Food: Yes! Hahaha...
The six things I could never do without
The National Geographic Channel, my daughter, my friends, my family, the beauty of nature, compassion.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Personal growth, enjoying the gift of life, laughter and finding my other half.
On a typical Friday night I am
Typical? No such thing! One week I can be spending it with my BFF, another at home watching National Geographic channel, the next at the movie get the idea.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Well, disclosing my gender status is pretty private---that's all ya get for now!, just kidding. I'm an open book, just can't think of anything note-worthy :)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 37–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You think that we would click....