Okay, I'm really not great at this but...here's me in a nutshell.
I'm a thinker, good listener/communicator, great friend---could be
an AWESOME boyfriend (really! and I can't believe that I'm still
single...), passionate and compassionate (mean-spirited people do
not have a place in my life), down to earth, nature-loving, of
Caribbean/Southern ancestry, a bit on the quiet side at first but
loosen up nicely. Love classic and foreign films, build my own
computers and generally have a voracious curious nature. I am a
post-op female to male transguy who views himself as just a regular
guy...I dunno, I'm much better at answering questions than creating
I am intelligent, attractive, and passionate
What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying it to the fullest, finding ways to "get the balance right". I love to take weekend trips when I can, spending time with my loved ones.
I’m really good at
Making people feel at ease. I've been told that I have a very "grounding" effect on others. I'm a pretty good cook, and being real without being an @$$**** or judgmental.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, my communication style (so I've been told), my easy-going
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I really enjoy short-story anthologies and essays. Shows: (Slightly blushing)Top Gear UK reruns, The Strain..., YouTube tech reviews. Music: a lot of classic jazz lately but sometimes I need to hear some old r&b like The Commodores or Rufus or late 80s stuff from Depeche Mode. Food: Yes, thank you! LOL
The six things I could never do without
My daughter, my friends, my family, the beauty of nature.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Personal growth, enjoying the gift of life, laughter and finding my
On a typical Friday night I am
Typical? No such thing! One week I can be spending it with my BFF,
another at home watching National Geographic channel, the next at
the movie theater...you get the idea.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Well, disclosing my gender status is pretty private---that's all ya get for now! LOL...no, just kidding. I'm an open book but much better at answering things like that on a one on one basis.
You should message me if
If you think we'd have a few things in common, or at least a lively exchange...