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obcean

46 F San Diego, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:28pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Spiritually off-center, politically left, excessively right-brained and perpetually curious. Uplifted by friendships, revived by yoga, attempting to garden, theater, music, family and surprises in unexpected places.
Drawn to performing arts and art in all forms. Awakens my senses and reminds me what is important.
Easily pleased by the simplest things, a fresh garden tomato, walk with a friend, an affectionate smile. On the path to simplifying my world. Make bread-yes. Live in a yurt- not yet.
Open eyes and open heart, active social conscience while hopeful about progress and small mercies.
In taking an honest look, I have strong opinions, am a bit freaked out doing this now. Feel nervous about what lies ahead, but butterflies can signal good news. While I'm happy in quiet routines I'm inspired by change and refreshed by new scenery. Spontaneous with plans, but dependable in friendship, I treasure and thirst for good conversation, but am a better listener. Those who know me say I am patient, open-minded, interested in almost everything, deeply loyal, supportive and fun.
What I’m doing with my life
Somehow my work has always been with people, usually “special” groups, and at the moment, those are school-kids in the AM and immigrants in the PM. Would love to travel the world, but try to find the best in wherever I am.
Today- tending a garden, creating a business, reading 3 books and a stack of New Yorkers, writing a script, connecting with friends, laughing
I’m really good at
definately not writing autobiographies...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
In movies I appreciate the off- beat and heartfelt.

Music, out of touch with the here and now, but always drift back to moody crooners, or witty ones, or sassy divas...Rufus Wainwright, Tom Waits, The Magnetic Fields, Vivaldi, Van Morrison…
The six things I could never do without
family
friends
every form of art
fresh air and room to wander
laughter
hope
If I need a "thing" thing, it's probably at the thrift store
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life paints our canvas over with many tones and textures- the more the better. The light are never so meaningful without the contrast of the dark. The more layered and textured a life, the more inspiring to me
On a typical Friday night I am
Amazed it's Friday again
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 40–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are open to new experiences, (though not necessarily sky-diving) thoughtful in mind and action, comfortable in conversation and in silence. Serious about your world but don’t take yourself too seriously. You are looking for someone to laugh with, to inspire one another, and to share the surprises on the winding roads ahead with.