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31 / M / Straight / Single

Rochester, New York

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White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m).
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Average
Diet
Mostly anything
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No
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Socially
Drugs
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Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Education / Academia
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English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
i'm an intellectual and a musician. i leave it to you to decide which is more pretentious.

with respect to the former, i'm currently a visiting professor of american studies at st. john fisher college. i received my ph.d. in english (with a focus on nineteenth-century american literature) and critical theory from the university of rochester in the fall of 2012. i'm also working on two books: the first one on the politics of classic american literature (a revised version of my dissertation), the second a collection of essays on slovenian psychoanalyst, philosopher, and cultural theorist slavoj žižek. other intellectual pursuits of mine include writing about and arguing over politics and film.

with respect to the latter, in my free time i like to play and write music (usually on guitar, but on rare occasions on piano as well). once in a while i'll get an itch to perform some original material in public; sometimes i act on that itch. my brother and i are currently working on new material for a third misconstruity album (an old band of ours which disbanded in 2004). we're planning on recording it in the spring of '13 and releasing it in the fall of the same year. at least that's what we keep on telling ourselves.

i'm a bit of a tech geek.

arguably my greatest joy is making people laugh. if i wasn't so busy professing and playing music, i'd like to try my hand at stand-up comedy. perhaps in another life.
I’m really good at
thinking, writing, playing music, and procrastinating.
The first things people usually notice about me
that i'm noticing them noticing me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
authors: austin, j. l.; cavell, stanley; douglass, frederick; emerson, ralph waldo; fitzgerald, f. scott; freud, sigmund; harvey, david; hawthorne, nathaniel; james, henry; marx, karl; melville, herman; poe, edgar allan; pynchon, thomas; vonnegut, kurt; whitman, walt; wittgenstein, ludwig; žižek, slavoj.

auteurs: allen, woody; anderson, paul thomas; anderson, wes; aronofsky, darren; coen, joel & ethan; coppola, francis ford; fincher, david; hitchcock, alfred; kubrick, stanley; lynch, david; marker, chris; nolan, christopher; tarantino, quentin.

music: at the drive-in; beatles, the; cure, the; death cab for cutie; deftones; denali; doors, the; elliott; flaming lips, the; fleetwood mac; foo fighters; get up kids, the; gloria record, the; green day; jimmy eat world; kenna; kent; led zeppelin; mars volta, the; mineral; monkees, the; nirvana; pink floyd; police, the; radiohead; refused; rolling stones, the; saves the day; simon & garfunkel; stone temple pilots; sunny day real estate; tenacious d; thursday; u2; underoath; weakerthans, the; weezer.
The six things I could never do without
(1) oxygen, (2) water, (3) food, (4) corrective lenses, (5) books, and (6) air conditioning.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
ideology; politics; music
On a typical Friday night I am
usually a homebody. ergo, this site.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
two or three times (in my sordid past, of course) i changed the price tags on books that i couldn't afford. i've also been known to cut the tags off of my mattresses. i'm a loner dottie, a rebel.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you like guys who don't pop their collars; guys who don't yell or launch projectiles at their television when watching sporting events; guys who think that guys-nights-out (a.k.a. testosterone fests) are lame; guys who believe that gender is a social construct; etc., etc.