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oblaze

54 F Saint Paul, MN

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:33pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Other, and very serious about it
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Management
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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What is there to say that hasn't already been said? I'm fabulous! Isn't everyone? Walk on the beach? Sure. Likes to have fun? Duh. Classy? Yes and no. Confident? Yes. Not so pleasant when I'm not so pleasant? Sure, guilty as charged. We can't all be that amazing special someone that is described in these zany pararaphs. Cut to the chase: I'm a simple gal, with a complicated brain. I'm conversational and active, spiritual and adventurous. My passport is current and my shots are up to date, so anywhere you wanna go is up for grabs. My hippie camper is in it's full glory, after all it's summer in Minnesota. I have power tools and know how to use them. I have gourmet tastes with a simple twist. I enjoy a good life and am happy. I care about the earth. I'm given to moon dances and star gazing. I dig being in nature most, but truly do enjoy a fascinating movie, theater experience or a night out listening to music. I'm charmed by a great smile. I melt when you touch me softly ~
What I’m doing with my life
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Taking care of me, which took some time to learn how to do. I have lots of things that keep me busy, much to my dismay sometimes. I run a small, yet efficient, nimble, effective agency. I have a consulting firm. I'm a great Auntie, a good friend. I travel, I bike, I hike, I practice yoga, and meditate. I don't do much without music in the background. I engage in my friendships and contribute in ways I believe make a difference.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Traveling, cooking, being out and about, not to be seen, but to see. I'm a lovely listener. I'm a dear friend, I'm a trusted colleague. I enjoy spiritual endeavors a lot and dabble in all the oracles and traditions.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Physically: My smile, my hair, and if your a leg man, my gams. Intellectually: my smarts and ability to carry on a lovely and spirited conversation. Socially: my commitment to social justice and willingness to seek change. Spiritually: my authenticity, genuiness, kind demeanor and engagement in eye contact.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: after all these years, Interview the Vampire remains my favorite sit-down-and-read-it-from-cover-to-cover-and-not-move-from-the-hammock book. On the non-fiction side: Woodman, Hillman, Bly, Rumi, Perry Brass, Eckart Tolle, ya know, the usual Jungian subjects. Movies: Let's just say I'm a flick freak. Shows: Broadway? 'Into the Woods' always stands out. I'm on a local nonprofit board for one of the theaters in town and live theater is important in my life. Music: YES, YES and more YES. Just keep that techno, violent rap and the are-you-kidding-me-disco-really? far from my ears and we'll get along just fine. Lucinda, Mercedes Sosa, Lyle Lovett, Townes VanZant, oh the list could be endless here. I also dig 60's and 70's rock and roll. Led Zep still makes me dance every time. Pink Floyd Meddle is one of my all time favorite albums. My friend made me a copy of his recording of the Masai people singing and playing music with their hands when he visited Africa ~ it's one of the most intimate and lovely gifts I've ever received. Dance me a tango and I promise you'll be astonished at my delight. Heck, dance me a polka, just dance me. Food: Gourment done simply. Organic and healthy. Watermelons have seeds in my world. Let's go to the farmers market early Saturday morning and pick out the best we can find ~~
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, Love, Love, Love, Love, my power tools, music, art, nephews - that's 9, but there's a whole bunch more... mostly love, love, love and stars and water and mountains and my passport and poetry and love. The rest I can do without ~ maybe. Well, my bike, my RV, and this lamp, that's all I need.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
That night in Nepal. The wine in Mendoza, Argentina. Breath. The silence at Wounded Knee. Balance. How to say it. When to say it. Presence. Owls. Where to find seeded watermelon. Yellowstone. Tibet. What's for supper. What's for breakfast. Why active boys get labeled ADHD.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Tired but willing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Seriously?
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 38–68
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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you're ready ~