What I’ve learned in 2013 (as far as dating…)
I love beards and tattoos… Fact. (goatees though, no thanks).
Complimentary senses of humor are a necessary. I love to laugh, and love making people laugh (sometimes at my own expense) and I see this as crucial to building and maintaining a relationship.
I like continuous contact. I don’t need to know your every move or plan but when we’re “conversing” via text message, and you stop responding for 10hours, I may get a little annoyed.
I hate to be “that girl” but with the last two guys I’ve dated cheating on me, I do question (mostly in my mind) about certain scenarios. I’m trying to calm this reaction. I don’t like the whole “getting cheated” on … it is not my favorite thing.
I don’t mind staying in some nights and making dinner or watching Netflix, but I also like to go out… And I don’t always want to be the one trying to make the plans and/or decisions.
Also, I’m horrible at making decisions, you’ve been warned.
So, here are a few "important" things..... I believe my "love language" is words, I like to have some sort of daily communication. I also will let my guard down, if you do the same, but once it's put back up, it's going to be quite hard to put down and I will most likely give up. I am not financially sound, I pay my bills, and sometimes have to forego going out, or buying new things... But I guess that happens when you spend "six-figures" on college. I struggle dropping everything and making plans with you unless you give me just reason... My "me" time is VERY important to me and I don't see that changing anytime soon. And finally, I may be "young" but I do want and dream of that future, I want a family, I want to be married and have kids... So, if that scares you, so be it. But to be clear, I do not expect to be married within the next 6months, or anywhere near it. Just know, that's my ultimate goal in a relationship.