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obscuredlove

27 F Minneapolis, MN

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:45am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Taurus
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I have grown to notice that it may be more productive to leave less within this section under the understanding that "less is more". But I'd say overall, I'm looking for a Phil to my Claire, a Marshall to my Lily, a Pete to my Debbie, a Jax to my Tara.. Ok, maybe not that one!

What I’ve learned in 2013 (as far as dating…)
I love beards and tattoos… Fact. (goatees though, no thanks).
Complimentary senses of humor are a necessary. I love to laugh, and love making people laugh (sometimes at my own expense) and I see this as crucial to building and maintaining a relationship.
I like continuous contact. I don’t need to know your every move or plan but when we’re “conversing” via text message, and you stop responding for 10hours, I may get a little annoyed.
I hate to be “that girl” but with the last two guys I’ve dated cheating on me, I do question (mostly in my mind) about certain scenarios. I’m trying to calm this reaction. I don’t like the whole “getting cheated” on … it is not my favorite thing.
I don’t mind staying in some nights and making dinner or watching Netflix, but I also like to go out… And I don’t always want to be the one trying to make the plans and/or decisions.
Also, I’m horrible at making decisions, you’ve been warned.

So, here are a few "important" things..... I believe my "love language" is words, I like to have some sort of daily communication. I also will let my guard down, if you do the same, but once it's put back up, it's going to be quite hard to put down and I will most likely give up. I am not financially sound, I pay my bills, and sometimes have to forego going out, or buying new things... But I guess that happens when you spend "six-figures" on college. I struggle dropping everything and making plans with you unless you give me just reason... My "me" time is VERY important to me and I don't see that changing anytime soon. And finally, I may be "young" but I do want and dream of that future, I want a family, I want to be married and have kids... So, if that scares you, so be it. But to be clear, I do not expect to be married within the next 6months, or anywhere near it. Just know, that's my ultimate goal in a relationship.
What I’m doing with my life
I graduated with my Masters of Social Work and recently began working full time as a Behavioral Therapist/Mental Health Practitioner. I have been working in the field of Children's Mental Health and love it. I live in St Louis Park and enjoy walking around Lake Calhoun with my pup and hit the gym a few days a week.
I’m really good at
Writing obscenely big words in papers to make myself sound smart ;) even if I don't mean to!
The first things people usually notice about me
I would say that at times I have a certain demeanor about me, I am confident and at times that shows. I am funny, I love making people laugh, and sometimes being the center of attention. I am busy, but can and will make the time when necessary. I also get a lot of compliments on my eyes, which I proudly thank my father for.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books... I have hundreds of them, most James Patterson and John Sandford. I love that John Sandford novels are based in Minnesota. I also have plenty of school books and books based on various mental health diagnoses. All very interesting.

Movies... I like most movies, I think. Except horror, because, quite obviously, they scare me. But, I try to be open to others' interests.

Shows... Netflix is my savior! I love Dexter, Weeds, Glee, Breaking Bad, Roseanne, Desperate Housewives, New Girl, 30Rock, Criminal Minds, CSI, House... I'm sure there's plenty more as well.

Music... If I could choose one type of music to listen to the rest of my life, I'd choose country. LOVE it :) Sugarland, Jason Aldean, Luke Bryan, Garth Brooks, Adele, Sublime, Barenaked Ladies, Michael Buble, RENT, Tim McGraw, Alanis Morisette... I will stop naming because I'm sure you've stopped reading.

Food... I love most foods, cooking and baking.... Sushi, not so sure about though!
The six things I could never do without
1) my dog
2) food
3) my friends
4) my blackberry/computer
5) a job
6) my car
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I'd like to be when I "grow up"... Where my education will bring me... Where I will be in my life in 5 years... Why I never take a vacation...

Sometimes people ask me why I work with kids... and I always wonder why someone wouldn't want to work with kids... This, is a perfect example of why I work with kids: I was working with a 9year old and when I asked her what she wanted to be when she grew up she responded "you know, I haven't really thought about that, but I just know I'm going to be awesome"

I also spend my days playing tag, laughing, cackling like a witch and overall being silly. It's definitely a pretty amazing job.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either out with friends or relaxing, VERY exciting.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I hate being away from my pup for more than a day... She's a pretty important little part of my life :)

Or maybe that I find good driving a small turn on ... Bad driving a huge turn off!!

Or maybe that I am very attracted to tall (6'3"+) bigger-ish (230ish) guys... and legs... and if you're wearing sexy Nikes (AirMax90s) out at the bar, I more than likely will tell you how much I love your shoes... It's a great ice breaker!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 25–31
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you honestly think something could become of it, always worth a try.

I am struggling to find guys who make me want to take the time out of my busy work/school/homework schedule to meet with them... Challenge introduced.