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oceanlilia

36 Dublin, CA Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 34–47
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:08pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Fit
Diet
Other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Has kids, and might want more
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hmmm...writing about oneself is like pulling tooth and nail. It's excruciatingly painful isn't it? Well at least for me because I'm my own worst critic. I'm not necessarily sure if I can really capture the essence of who I am in a couple of sentences, but here goes...I am a small town girl with a city girl twist. I am conservative, but not closed-minded. I love anything that has to do with experiencing culture, whether it is traveling, reading, dancing (especially partner dancing), art and people. I know this sounds a little ambiguous, but if you get to know me, you'll acquire more of my traits. I love spending time with friends and family, but I don't like to be the center of attention. I hold strong beliefs and I'm perfectly happy to express my opinion when asked. However, I do appreciate someone who is direct, true to oneself and someone who isn't afraid to be a goofball or dork infront of me. Let's face it, life is too short to be playing games. If you are someone who you think I could be friends with at first that could possibly grow into something meaningful, I would like to get to know you. It would be nice to meet someone that I'm compatible with, someone who shares the same views, values and beliefs and of course, someone who can make me laugh.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Building my career but also working on balance.

Just started Tango Lessons and I think I love it more than belly dancing!! ;)

Learning how to play the Ukulele (Hey- they said it was the easiest one to learn!) Don't judge!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Laughing and enjoying the moments
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile. I have been told that my eyes capture their attention. I also know my sense of humor and charisma.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music: Reggae, 80's, House, Techno, Afro Cuban, Caribbean Music, HAPPY MUSIC ;) Lately listening to Modern Rock in Spanish with a Reggae twist :)

Food: Good old fashion Mexican food... especially the authentic kind. Healthier Kind. Italian and Cambodian food as well.

Love going to shows, concerts, Festivals, love all music. I really enjoy being in the energy of people when they are doing something they are passionate about like singing their heart out even if they don't sing well. LOVE IT!!!

Books... no favorites just personal growth books or any friends recommend. Currently reading 'Water for Elephants' & 21.5 Unbreakable Laws of Selling'
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
SUN- Just feeling the sun on my skin makes me feel like I have been given a spiritual blanket. As if someone from up above is letting me know they are watching over with me and leading me in the right direction.

LOVE- My family, my friends, my surroundings... it all starts with love.

MUSIC- I mean who can live without music? It is so powerful... It can alter your mood, enhance it, change it, express it. And it brings people together.

ME time- gym, yoga, belly dancing, hiking, anything I choose to experience at the moment.

LAUGHTER- I do not take myself so serious.

PERSONAL GROWTH- Makes me feel good when I continually work on myself.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Continuing to have fun while working and enjoying the journey!
Lately I have thought a lot about learning a new dance but it is much more fun when you have a partner. Maybe some salsa dancing lessons... Hhhmmm ;)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Never the same thing on a Friday night. Always something going on and I love it! Either movie at home with kids or out on the town dinner with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My private information is earned not given away.... With time. ;)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are passionate, responsible, respectful, happy, kind, open, and adventurous -(as longs as you don't get me killed).

If you are healed from past relationships and have moved on. 3's a crowd. ;)

*Please no hook ups/hang-outs either. Looking for a deep meaningful relationship.

(Taller than me please... I like wearing heels)

P.s. I don't drink but if there is a celebration I will have a glass.