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oceanlover21

22 / F / bisexual / Single

Norfolk, Virginia

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Ethnicity
Other
Height
5' 3" (1.60m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Aquarius
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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I am outgoing, silly, and nerdy.

My Self-Summary

First, if you've got a huge ego and think you're the bees knees or the best thing since sliced bread, don't even bother messaging me. That's one of the worst traits in a person.

Basically, I love to hang out with good friends, go see movies, go on outdoor trips, sail, dive, camp, kayak, laugh, play music, and play video games (that's not everything though). I'm basically the girly tomboy if that makes any sense. But do not be fooled, I'm a romantic and love to do little things for the ones I care about. I'm probably one of the most trusting, faithful, and loyal people you'll ever meet. I try to respect people, but only if they respect me. Do not demand my respect because you won't get it that way. I've had my share of good and bad experiences and I've found that I can comfort people when they've gone through some tough times. Most people think I have everything figured out, but the truth is that I'm just as lost as everyone else, but I choose to put a smile on my face and look at things in a positive light. It's just who I am and I'd rather be happy than dwell (even though sometimes you just have to let things out). I forgive people because I'd rather forgive than hold a grudge. Everyone makes mistakes, but you should always learn from them. I try to learn from mine. I've been shit on by way too many people and I just wanted to be treated the way that I treat everyone else; kindly. I guess that because I'm so nice and giving that people tend to take advantage of me. It really hurts, but I just keep moving on like always.

Anyways, I love my threadless.com t-shirts and if you know about that website, you know my humor. I love watching South Park and I like to quote from the series. I love making people laugh and I guess you could say if anything I would be the "class clown". I'm pretty social, my friends always tell me they never want to walk with me because I'll always see several people I know and will talk to them. And just in case you couldn't tell from my pictures, I'm half black and half white, 5'4, curvy :-) and I have dark brown, really curly hair. One thing to know is that I currently have 4 tattoos but be rest assured I'm working on my 5th, 6th, and 7th. Just gotta finish the designs. Anyway, I don't think you can really understand my personality in this paragraph so I don't really know what else to say but if you want to know more, let me know!

one more thing...
people who type in all caps are seriously irritating. LOL OMG ROFL LMFAO ROFLSAURUS ROFLCOPTER LOLLERSKATES

ok I'm done. just had to get that out ugh

What I’m doing with my life

I used to live on a sailboat for a year and sailed across the Atlantic ocean twice before coming to college. Right now I'm a student working towards my degree in Oceanography, but I know I'll be back on that sailboat for another go around. Can't wait til that day comes because I've been a landlubber for far too long! lol

I’m really good at

caring for people; especially friends and family. I'm really understanding and I try my best to forgive and to not judge.

Making people laugh when they are feeling shitty.
Cartman impressions.
Driving.
Guitar Hero 3.
Red Faction.
Babysitting.
Business Calculus.
My job.
Standing up for friends/people.
Letting my feelings known.
Playing pool.
Parking.
Listening.
Giving advice.
Bomberman.
Being a good girlfriend.

The first things people usually notice about me

My voice. It's apparently very distinctive and my smile. Big, white, straight.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Michael Connelly, Harlan Coben, and Carl Hiassen are my favorite authors. Love all types of music, I'm an all-around girl. Food is freaking awesome and I love it!

The six things I could never do without

Growltiger (sailboat)
family
my music/ipod
netbook + internet (yes, I'm counting it as one thing lol)
food (and water!)
the puppies (Taffie and Kady)

I spend a lot of time thinking about

the earth, the ocean, where I'm headed, basically life in general I guess. I don't know... just life and the future.

On a typical Friday night I am

catching fish with my bare hands. then eating them. I love the ocean. and fish.

lol jk.

usually with friends.

Editors

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I went to the bathroom in a sandbox when I was a kid.

hahahahaaaaaa jk jk

but no really, I set a balloon on fire and it popped and burnt my lip lol

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You should message me if

you like people with great personalities
you have a great personality
you like someone more based on their demeanor than their looks
you like sushi
you are kind hearted
you can start a conversation from nothing
you want to sky dive one day
you are interested
you can swim
you've ever played 4-square
you aren't boring
you aren't a creeper

...lol