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oceansend

26 / M / Gay / Single

Chicago, Illinois

His Details

Last Online
May 13
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m).
Body Type
Skinny
Diet
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Aries but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Clerical / Administrative
Income
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Italian (Okay)

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My self-summary
I consider myself pretty outgoing, but I can have my shy moments. I love having a great time, whether it's watching a movie somewhere, or going out to get drinks with friends. I've been told I can be a jerk on occasion because I don't let people walk all over me, don't like drama, and tend to call people on their BS lol.

I am tall, hysterical, and laidback
What I’m doing with my life
Working right now while I am figuring out what I am going to do with my college degree and the ever-changing landscape of the journalism field. Ideally I'd like to end up as a free lance editor, not just because I'm a grammar nerd, but I love being critical of others. Debating going back to school at some point, but not sure if it will be worth it in the end.
I’m really good at
I think I'm a really good listener because a lot of my friends appreciate having me when they need to talk. I'm really patient with people, kids, co-workers etc..except driving because I like to get places fast, and there are a lot of people who don't know how to drive right, or safely. My friends and I like to think of me as a good cook, which I can be, but I generally find it easier to be lazy.
The first things people usually notice about me
My height (6'3), when my hair is colored it draws attention, and I can be unusually loud and tend to draw attention to myself easily especially if I have been drinking, but in a good fun mannered way.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: It's taken a while to get back into reading for fun, but I like anything by Dan Brown, the Help, the Chronicles of Narnia, the Sookie Stackhouse series, the Secret Circle series, and sociology books (figures since I majored in it huh?)
Movies: anything funny, suspenseful, and horror movies are good...only the scary ones though. The Scream Series, Fired Up, Beauty & the Beast, almost any Adam Sandler, or Will Ferrell movie, and so many more. I should advise I'm in a very intense relationship with my home DVR.
Music: I like many different genres, but I am particularly fond of rock, alternative, rap/hip-hop, and pop. I'm particularly entranced in Glee covers, not just because I love the show, but because I love different musical interpretations/remixes. Really, it comes down to good music and lyrics for me.
Food: Italian, Chinese, Mexican, and simple things to make, although I do enjoy cooking when I have the time.
The six things I could never do without
1. My sense of humor, 2. My Friends & Family, 3. My music, 4. Tea, 5. My DVR, 6. Pasta,
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What the future holds, how so many people are content to live in the internet but not step foot out of their house in real life, and the tragedy that is American politics. I also spend a great deal of time thinking about how to become my own boss one day.
On a typical Friday night I am
More often that not, I will be at home with or without friends. I've become tired of the bar scene mostly, but I do enjoy going out for a drink or dancing when I can.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I feel confident about myself, but I don't handle compliments well.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 21–31
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You're interested, or just want to talk. But to be honest, I try to check this often, but sometimes when I do I'm not in the mood/ have time to respond right back, so It could take a while.