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45 San Jose, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 6, 2013
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
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Difficult to summarize myself. Hmm, I'll have to think about that.
What I’m doing with my life
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Living it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Meeting and getting to know people (I'm very social and outgoing). Connecting people. Getting by on a teeny budget/ saving money. Seeing other perspectives. Advocating for others. Staying healthy. Growing plants/ Gardening.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile, my fitness, my friendly/outgoing nature, I guess. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like many different books -don't know if I have favorites. I like books on health/wellness, gardening, politics/sociology, etc. Movies: I gravitate toward indy/arty/foreign films, quirky stuff, documentaries, and I also like comedies and many others. Music: all kinds. There's something in probably every genre that I can appreciate. I especially like 80's music and highly danceable music, world music, etc. Food: all kinds, should be vegetarian and healthy, ideally.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Besides, oxygen, water, food, sleep/rest, shelter, health?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
so many things... usually while I'm gardening.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At art shows/events or coffeeshops watching friends play music, watching social justice films w/ some of my peeps (not the confection), dancing, socializing, etc.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Hmm, I'll have to think about that too.
You should message me if
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you've answered at least a page or two of the profile questions, or at least have both a photo posted and profile mostly completed, and you can tell me what prompted you to message me. You can skip that if your message is very entertaining or otherwise interesting or if I've already made contact w/ you, obviously. :)