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  • Ages 18–49
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My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:21am
Hispanic / Latin, White
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Buddhism and laughing about it
Has dogs and Has cats
English, Sign Language (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Current PC games of note: Skyforge - instanced mmorpg, great graphics, great progression mechanics, lots of fun, lots of variety, and free to play.

You are already enough. In every way that truly matters, you are perfect.

There is only this moment. The future and past are a story we tell ourselves.

Looking for awesome people who are happy to be alive and like spending time with other folks who are happy being themselves.

Coffee, Massage, Food, Sex, Lounging, Gaming, and anything else that we enjoy, or feel like trying.

Currently working 1/2 time Monday - Thursday 11-4pm, Outside of that, I am available for other fun activities.


I grew up with computers, usually with the case only recently re-attached. I like most RPGs, action games and first person shooters have to work harder to get my love.

Yoga - The yoking of mind and body. It surprised me when I realized I had spent years without being fully present in my body.

I practice functional Polyamory meaning I believe you can have deep meaningful relationships with every person you meet. Those relationship may include sex. The more levels you connect on, the "better" the sex can be, the "better" the relationship can be.
Spending time with other folks is more for the delight and variety. What does delight look like from your window?

I believe in being genuine. I also love simply being.

I love building. I built my room (complete with 37" monitor hanging above the bed, that tilts up to be a standing workstation... via the ropes, which weren't always for the TV.

I love teaching and learning. Anything you are passionate about, I will enjoy hearing about. A yoga teacher sounds hot. Ooo or a slack rope walker, Aikido teacher? Throw me one more time!

I know American Sign Language

I am Awake, Alive and Engaged.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I spent 15 of the last 20 years at MSFT in various roles. I am neither rich, nor particularly excited to spend another 20 in Corporate America. What else is on the agenda?

Currently working in Academia, which matches my personal values and skill set, so... Yay.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Giving honest feedback. Connecting deeply. Listening.

DIY anything... including sex toys.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes, my smile, my attention to their words.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Comedy: Eddie Izzard rocks. Margret Cho is fun.
Books: I enjoyed Harry Potter, and most Sci Fi and Fantasty books... which I now listen to on audio book while playing computer games. God bless the internet :)
On the more intense side, Joseph Campbell, Vivekananda, Adyashanti, Eckhart Tolle, Jung. Karma isn't the universe judging us, it is the physics of conditioning.

If you have woken up and forgot how, listen to Adyashanti.

Sometimes telling someone the truth of themselves, and being an asshole are the same damn thing, ...there is the gate-less gate, now are you chicken or what? :D

Yes! The "I" is chicken. That is the Ego, fear/discontent with what is.

Douglas Adams is fun too. Neil Gaiman has rocked my world repeatedly over the years. Terry Pratchett is fun. Robert Heinlein makes the best pulp in the multiverse.

Music: Macklemore!!! Seattle native, and speaks Truth. Bastille, One Republic, Pentatonix, Glitch Mob, Plenty of Dubstep, Calvin Harris, Blackmill, Swedish House Mafia, Imagine Dragons, Avicii, Fall Out Boy, Lindsey Stirling, Anthem Lights, Katy Perry, Ani Difranco.

Comics: Sandman, Transmetropolitan, Invisibles... and on the other end of the spectrum Skin Horse, Capitol Hill Billies, Penny Arcade, XKCD
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
There is no thing we can't do without. Of my favortie things, this is a random few:
Alone time with great music
Companionship with folks who enjoy being company
Company that likes putting in 110% for a good cause (yes, I'm talking about sex... and massage... and art... and magic... and everything).
Living stuff to play with and watch grow and change.
Time, space, and interest in creating (art/ideas/anything)
Radical Self Expression
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, the Universe and Everything
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Yoga, Massage, Hanging with tribemates, building something, fixing something, imagining something.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I woke up ~ May 1st 2012. Not for the first time, but certainly the most profoundly.
I spent a couple months in a state of profound peace, joy and grace. The "I" is more or less back to something corresponding to "normal" but my compass certainly got re-calibrated.
Walking a bright path.
You should message me if
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You are awesome in one or more ways. You like spending time with other awesome people.

You heard something that you want to know more about. You would enjoy a great massage. You would like to give a great massage!
Of particular interest, I'd love to get more time with ceramics and glass blowing, but really, anything you are particularly passionate about I will probably find interesting.