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40 Issaquah, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 18–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 22
Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Has dogs and has cats
English, Sign Language (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Guild Wars 2 -- That happened. Still have accounts, and it's free to play, so I can always play later :) (for some value of later.)

You are perfect. In every way that truly matters, you are perfect.

There is only this moment. The future and past are a story we tell each other.

Looking for awesome people who are happy and like spending time with other folks who are happy being what they are, who they are, and where they are in the moment.

Coffee, Massage, Food, Sex, Lounging, Gaming, and anything else that we enjoy, or feel like trying.

You are already good enough.

Looking for playful partners in both my massage partners and my sexual partners, other activities also possible depending on mutual interest. Quite happy to maintain boundaries, and be a gentleman. I really enjoy both giving and receiving massage. I have been told my massages are mind blowing. Think NSA intimacy rather than NSA sex :) That being said, if you wiggle your ass at me, I will get the hint.

Currently working full time Monday-Friday 10-6pm (Woot!). Outside of that, I am available for other fun activities.

Hot tub is offline for the summer. That was quite pleasant.


Mostly looking for guys (partnered is certainly fine) to spend time with. (coffee, walking/hiking, yoga, martial arts, brain foo, massage, sex, gaming, dharma, Zen, whatever).

I grew up with computers, usually with the case only recently re-attached. I have spent my 10k hours playing video games, and while I love them, I'm in a "Time waster" mode rather than a "MMORPG PWN YOUR LIFE" mode. I like most RPG's, not as excited about FPS, and am bored to tears by Sports and Racing games.

Who has heard of Wax, Shatter, Honey?!? The kids and their lingo these days! I tell ya!

If you live Yoga, we will get along great.

I practice functional Polyamory meaning I believe you can have deep meaningful relationships with every fucking person you know. You may also have sex with one or more folks you know. The more levels you connect on, the "better" the sex can be, the "better" the relationship can be. How long does it take you to ride yourself to bliss? I know where my prostate is, and how to massage it to ecstasy that would make me beg. And I can do that to me. So other folks are more for the delight and variety than for the sexual climax. If you need me to preform a role to enjoy our time together, we will probably meet once or twice. We may also have mind blowing sex... which may or may not include penetration, or orgasm, but certainly could if you wanted it to. What does delight look like from your window?

Is it easier or harder with more than one person? I believe in honesty, playing safe-er (I love (the idea and convenience of) raw sex, but only practice in fluids closed relationships).

I also love being.

I love building, and I built my room (complete with 37" monitor hanging above the bed, that tilts up to be a standing workstation... via the ropes, which weren't always for the TV.

I love teaching and learning especially when they are happening together. Anything you are passionate about, I will enjoy learning from you. A yoga teacher sounds hawt. Ooo or a slack rope walker, Aikido teacher? Throw me one more time baby!

I know American Sign Language

I am Awake, Alive and Engaged.... in a good moment.

What IS a good moment? Aren't all moments this moment? Aren't all moments exactly as they are? Good moment my left foot.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I spent 15 of the last 20 years at MSFT in various roles. I am neither rich, nor particularly excited to spend another 20 in Corporate America. What else is on the agenda? Story teller/Magician/Foo Master. Most of my life has revolved around computers and technology. I don't see that changing any time soon. :)

Currently working in Academia, which matches my personal values and skillset, so yay.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Giving honest feedback. Connecting deeply. Listening.

DIY anything... including sex toys.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes, my smile, my attention to their words and if they are into social dominance, my (on a good day) lack of reaction to their attempts at domination. On a not so good day, I smile... I don't suggest trying this with a police officer, it can make them wig.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Comedy: Eddie Izzard rocks. Margret Cho is fun.
Books: I enjoyed Harry Potter, and most Sci Fi and Fantasty books... which I now listen to on audio book while playing computer games. God bless the internet :)
On the more intense side, Joseph Campbell, Vivekananda, Enlightenment is for real.

If you have woken up and forgot how to "do it" listen to Adyashanti. If you haven't, it's worth a shot :)

So sexy, such a bastard, ...there is the gateless gate, now are you chicken or what? :D

Yes! "I" am chicken. Duh. That is what Ego is.

Douglas Adams is fun too. Neil Gamien has rocked my world repeatedly over the years. Terry Pratchett is fun. Robert Heinlein makes the best pulp in the multiverse.

Music: Macklemore!!! Seattle native, and speaks Truth. Bastille, One Republic, Pentatonix, Glitch Mob, Plenty of Dubstep, Calvin Harris, Blackmill, Swedish House Mafia, Imagine Dragons, Avicii, Fall Out Boy, Lindsey Stirling, Anthem Lights, Katy Perry, Ani Difranco.... And for the last couple of months, dharma/Adyashanti/Echart Tolle with Pandora on an Ambient station I mixed up.

Comics: Sandman, Transmetropolitan, Invisibles... and on the other end of the spectrum Skin Horse, Capitol Hill Billies, Penny Arcade, XKCD
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
There is no thing we can't do without. Of my favortie things, this is a random few:
Alone time with great music.
Companionship with quality folks who enjoy being company without needing to entertain or be entertained.
Company that likes putting in 110% for a good cause (yes, I'm talking about sex... and massage... and art... and magic... and everything.
Living stuff to play with and watch grow and change.
Time, space, and interest in creating net new (art/ideas/etc)
Radical Self Expression
Whipped Cream
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, the Universe and Everything
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Yoga, Massage, Hanging with tribemates, building something, fixing something, imagining something.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I woke up ~ May 1st 2012. Not the first time, but certainly the most profoundly.
I spent a couple months in a state of profound peace, joy and grace. The "I" is more or less back to something corresponding to "normal" but my compass certainly got re-calibrated.
walking a bright path.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are awesome in one or more ways. You like spending time with other awesome people.

You heard something that you want to know more about. You would enjoy a great massage. You would like to give a great massage! You have something to teach.

Of particular interest, I'd love to get more time with ceramics and glass blowing, but really, anything you are particularly passionate about I will probably find interesting.