oddlycharming83
32 Fort Bragg, NC
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My self-summary
Hi there. I'm the world's okayest guy and a bit of a nerd...I won't apologize for my nerd-ish tendencies. Consider that full disclosure.

I'm an interesting combination of nerd (see disclaimer above), intellectual, athlete, introvert, and type-A-ish personality rolled up in a svelte frame (oddly small wrists) and great hair (relatively).

A little about me: I'm somewhat short-ish, in great shape (compared to guys who aren't), green eyes, brown hair, and have a pretty nice smile (thanks to the power of dental advancements). All in all, I'm a decent looking man (compared to less-decent looking men). I'm intelligent, funny (sarcastic humor), charismatic (kinda...it's subjective), confident (yet reserved), active, quick-witted (smartass), motivated (big goals), and affectionate (kind of a softy). Plus, I can cook (should get me bonus points) I don't go out to clubs--they just aren't my scene (it's really because I don't know how to get "jiggy" with it). I have a daughter. And no, there isn't any "baby mama drama."

For those who subscribe to the Myers-Briggs type indicator as an accurate description of one's personality, I'm an INTJ.

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What I’m doing with my life
building paper planes and toothpick castles.
I’m really good at
making people not want to interact with me apparently. Which I find a little odd as I am hilarious. Seriously, who doesn't like a guy with a great sense of humor?
The first things people usually notice about me
is I seem unapproachable or aloof, but I'm not sure why.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell, Our Magnificent Bastard Tongue, World War Z, Abraham Lincoln: Vampire Hunter (haha), The World America Made, The End of Faith, The Big Lebowski, Step Brothers, Anchorman, Tropic Thunder, Ink Master, Numbers, The Big Bang Theory, ESPN, and the History Channel. I was recently turned on to Mumford & Sons...they are pretty freakin' great. As for food, mostly anything healthy, but if I feel like over-indulging I go for pizza or wings.
The six things I could never do without
my daughter, a good pair of running shoes, humor, a pullup bar, good beer on a warm day, and high SPF sun screen.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
where I'm headed in life; what my next goal is; where I left my phone, and is it time for new running shoes.
On a typical Friday night I am
in the gym or on the couch watching a terribly-awesome horror flick on Netflix with a good beer.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have been single for what amounts to a long time. I've been in the Internet dating game for a couple years now. I find it would be easy for me to be bitter and jaded by the process and nothing panning out for whatever reason. I suppose I'm a glutton for punishment as I'm still trying, but being the optimist I am, I believe there is someone out there I simply haven't crossed paths with who I can make incredibly happy be simply being me.
You should message me if
you are:
- comfortable with tattoos (I'm aware they aren't everyone's cup of tea)
- not adverse to those with slightly nerd-ish tendencies and would like to join from time to time (comics, games, sci-fi, etc)
- have no qualms about dating a man in the military (tough one, I know)

OR
You also speak Korean and want a conversation partner
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