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30 M Fayetteville, NC

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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Korean (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Hi there. I'm a bit of a nerd...I won't apologize for my nerd-ish tendencies. Consider that full disclosure.

I'm an interesting combination of nerd, intellectual, athlete, shy-guy, and alpha-male rolled up in a svelte frame (oddly small wrists) and great hair (relatively).

A little about me: I'm somewhat short-ish, in great shape (compared to guys who aren't), green eyes, brown hair, and have a pretty nice smile (when i do smile). All in all, I'm a decent looking man (compared to ugly men). I'm intelligent, funny (sarcastic humor), charismatic (kinda), confident (yet reserved and peculiar), active, quick-witted (smartass), motivated (big goals), and affectionate (kind of a softy). Plus, I can cook (should get me bonus points). Into some of the following: fitness and fitness related activities, playing guitar, reading, watching/playing football, and watching movies. I don't go out to clubs--they just aren't my scene. I have a daughter from a previous marriage. She doesn't live with me year-round. And no, there isn't any "baby mama drama."

For those who subscribe to the Myers-Briggs type indicator as an accurate description of one's personality, I'm an INTJ.

There is probably a good deal of things I could list here pertaining to what kind of music I like or what sports I follow. Maybe what hobbies I enjoy or how big my goals really are...but I won't. For one, you don't actually care and second, it won't change anything if you've bothered to read this far into the profile. I'm terrible at flirting and probably won't pick up on it--but, once I figure it out or you drop some pretty heavy hints (I mean baseball bat to the back of the head kinda heavy), it's all good. Call it a fatal flaw in an otherwise awesome person. Ha!

Since no one reads these things as it is, I'm going to take the time to spout off with some observations on this site and on-line dating in general. These sites are really nothing more than 21st century window shopping. This "quick access" to hundreds of people (profiles) has, essentially, weakened our ability to form strong relationships. Due, in part, to the aforementioned "quick access" of the potential "something better." While such an opinion is a broad generalization, and not entirely founded in statistical data, it cannot be mistaken. Tell me you have not messaged another back and forth, or even gone on a date (or two, or three), only to have said person cease contact with ne'er a word as to why. Logical inference: they found the proverbial "something better." In all seriousness (relative), I'm aware you get what you pay for and online dating is a crap shoot (this site is free, after all). Happy hunting!

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What I’m doing with my life
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Building paper planes and toothpick castles.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making people not want to interact with me apparently. Which I find a little odd as I am hilarious. Seriously, who doesn't like a guy with a great sense of humor?
The first things people usually notice about me
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is I seem unapproachable or aloof, but I'm not sure why.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell, Our Magnificent Bastard Tongue, World War Z, Abraham Lincoln: Vampire Hunter (haha), The World America Made, The End of Faith, The Big Lebowski, Step Brothers, Anchorman, Southland Tales, Tropic Thunder, Ink Master, Numbers, The Big Bang Theory, ESPN, and the History Channel. I was recently turned on to Mumford & Sons...they are pretty freakin' great. As for food, mostly anything healthy, but if I feel like over-indulging I go for pizza or wings.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My daughter, a good pair of running shoes, humor, a pullup bar, good beer on a warm day, and high SPF sun screen.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where I'm headed in life, what my next goal is, where I left my phone, and is it time for new running shoes.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In the gym or on the couch watching a terribly-awesome horror flick on Netflix.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'll admit anything...but only if asked. Ha!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–35
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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you are:
- intelligent and humorous
- relatively fit and healthy (I know people can't eat "clean" all the time...I certainly don't)
- into sports (or at least tolerate them. Bonus points for Oakland Athletics fans)
- comfortable with tattoos (I'm aware they aren't everyone's cup of tea)
- not adverse to those with slightly nerd-ish tendencies and would like to join from time to time (comics, games, sci-fi, etc)