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42 East Syracuse, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–46
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:49pm
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm looking more for Leonor Fini, or Anita Berber, or someone else who is fun, not shallow, and is creative as hell!
I went to college for English and Journalism, writing is a big part of my life.
Most of my friends are women, I'd never give any of them up if I met someone, and I think if someone cares about you they wouldn't ask you to do that.
I think literature is one of the most important forms of art created.
I think puritanism has done a hell of a lot more to hurt people than hedonism ever has.
I think OKcupid is a great place to meet other people, but the idea is you MEET them. If you live in the same city as me and can't be bothered to meet in a real place, well that seems kind of pointless.
And have a sense of humor! Yes, there are very important issues out there, but you have to laugh about it! There is a difference between fanaticism and dedication.
WARNING! I hold vain, greedy, and shallow people in complete contempt. If you say you're spiritual then only talk about money, or if you say you're not shallow but are only looking for attractive people, then there are plenty of other people willing to play pretend with you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Some school, writing, always writing, freelance articles on really strange stuff.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening to my friends when they have problems, giving advice, cooking.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sorry, I don't have the ego for this one. One person did send me a message letting me know I didn't have any hair, and I am forever indebted to her for that insightful and educated observation.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Satan Burger and Punk Land, both by the king of Bizarro fiction Carlton Mellick III, Dreams Underfoot by Charles DeLint, A Wizard of Earthsea by Ursula K. Leguin, Final Exits, Kitchen by Banana Yoshimoto, The Magic Mountain by Thomas Mann, Skinny Legs and All by Tom Robbins, Still Life With Woodpecker by Tom Robbins, The New Weird (Anthology), HP Lovecraft's stories, The Castle of Otranto,
Chaos: The Making of a New Science, Ubiquity, Beyond Einstein,
House of Leaves, Faust (I mean Marlowe's version.), Focault's Pendulum, Teatro Grottesco by Thomas Ligotti.

Lost in Translation, When Night is Falling, The Last Supper, Martyrs, The Seventh Seal, 5 Centimeters per Second, The Devil's Rain, Children Shouldn't Play With Dead Things, Night of the Living Dead, City of the Living Dead, Burial Ground, The Beyond, Buio Omega, Starry Eyes, Cannibal Holocaust, Love and Human Remains, Enter the Void, Holy Motors. The Exorcist, Psycho Beach Party, The Doom Generation, Tombs of the Blind Dead.

Bauhaus, Type O Negative, This Mortal Coil, KMFDM, Radiohead, Mia Doi Todd, Pearl Jam, Deb Talan,Happy Rhodes, Aimee Mann, Eatliz, Second Person, Everything But the Girl, Alice in Chains, Supreme Beings of Leisure, Holly Lerski, Jane Siberry, KD Lang, The Cure, Stiff Little Fingers, Delerium, Hooverphonic, Whale, VNV Nation, Deep Forest, Emilie Autumn, , Depeche Mode, Siouxsie and the Banshees, The Cruxshadows, Shearwater, Mazzy Star, David Bowie, The Smiths, Porno for Pyros, Dead Kennedys, Black Flag, Dead Milkmen, The Plasmatics, Iron & Wine, October Project, Black Flag, The Velvet Underground, Sleater-Kinney, L7, Cannibal Corpse, Mozart, Billie Holiday.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My writing,
My few very close and amazing friends,
My books,
My music,
My health,
When there is a sixth I'll let you know.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything, I spend a lot of time thinking.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually I'm writing, sometimes I go to a bar, sometimes I'm hanging out with friends, sometimes I stay at home and watch a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've written an instructional article about grave robbing.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are looking for other creative people.

You'd really rather meet people with a darker sense of humor.

You are looking for a friend, or maybe you are looking for someone to just talk with, thats usually how friendship works, isn't it?

If everyone around you can choke on the amount of pretentiousness you spew out, I'm not interested.