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  • Ages 27-45
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My details

Last online
Dec 4, 2013
Native American
Seeing Someone
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Average build
Has kid(s)
My self-summary
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I am intuitive, silly, sensual, and somewhat strange. I sing when I am content and happy, am in awe of the majesty of trees and the ocean, and love listening to and playing the native american flute. (my housemate points out that everyone likes nature and such, so it is somewhat trite to write about it when describing yourself. Just to clarify...I absolutely LOVE trees and the ocean. Probably more than most.)

I am polyamorous and motherly (to an actual tiny human, but also in general with everyone). I also focus in a big way on personal growth, radical honesty, open communication, and living intentionally.

AIM: ohaigianteyes
g-talk: odetofantasy at gmail
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Being! Living in the moment with intent. Also, I'm one of those proud mothers who thinks that her kid is the most awesome thing that has ever existed. I have been staying at home with him and learning about the awesomeness of the universe because of it, but now am looking for a job that can support us.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
reading ALL OF THE BOOKS EVER, working on being self aware, making people feel important or special, saying random comments that confuse you or telling entertaining stories that may or may not make you blush, admitting when I am wrong, baking, helping small businesses get started or expand
The first things people usually notice about me
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that I'm probably smiling =D
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: anything by Rumi, Robert Jordan's Wheel of Time Series, C.S. Lewis' Space Trilogy, JTHM, Lenore, The Kushiel Series, Blink, The Dresden Files (really anything by Jim Butcher), The Divine Matrix, A New Earth(Eckhart Tolle in general), Harry Potter, The Mistborn Trilogy...and so many more

Music: A Perfect Circle, Sia, Tori Amos, Sleepthief, Regina Spektor, The Blow, Iron and Wine, the xx, Wax Tailor, Metric, Eisley, Jes, Beats Antique, Sneaker Pimps, Portishead, The Dreamer and The Sleeper, Muse, Celldweller, Kidneythieves, V.A.S.T., Lhasa De Sela

Movies: Bandits, 12 Monkeys, Pi, Boondock Saints, Amelie, Mirrormask, Double Jeopardy, Legend, The 5th Element, Harry Potter, Saawariya, (and way more that I can't think of) I'm always up to finding new awesome things :)

Shows: Leverage, Eureka, Dr. Who, Torchwood, Firefly, Dead Like Me, Community, Once Upon A Time, Bones, Project Runway, all of the cooking shows ever
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
consciousness, love , sexuality, music, books, internets (I could probably do without all of these except consciousness, but I wouldn't like to...)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I am working on not thinking so much...but when I son, how creepy/amazing it is that we GROW humans in our bodies, religion vs. spirituality, adventures!, consciousness, sex and sexuality, enlightenment, the human psyche, healing, the cosmos, cookies, the reasons people act the way they do, cats, cults, dreams, my mental state, my next adventure, love, peace, brainwashing and other forms of subconscious manipulation, neuroplasticity
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
having adventures or home with my son
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am notoriously bad at responding to messages, and I hate talking on the phone, but persistence works with me, though it is no guarantee...

Also...I'm freaked out by mustaches.
You should message me if
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-you realize that just because i like sex and sexuality, that doesn't necessarily mean i want to have sex with YOU (you should know i most likely won't even meet you if you're below a 75% match. i completely trust okc's matching algorithm because i've met tons of people from here)
-you are a polyamorous parent
-you want an awesome new friend
-you think bookstores are heavenly and want to go on adventures looking for them
-you are crafty
-you grew up in a cult and would like to talk to someone who understands
-you know awesome thrift stores that you'd like to show me
-you have a toddler (mine is 2) and think it'd be awesome for our kids to have a playdate
-you're amazing and ridiculous but aren't arrogant and obnoxious
-you have a cello and would be willing to play for me. really. message me riiiight now. i don't care about match percentage on this one...