Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am intuitive, silly, sensual, and somewhat strange. I sing when I
am content and happy, am in awe of the majesty of trees and the
ocean, and love listening to and playing the native american flute.
(my housemate points out that everyone likes nature and such, so it
is somewhat trite to write about it when describing yourself. Just
to clarify...I absolutely LOVE trees and the ocean. Probably more
I am polyamorous and motherly (to an actual tiny human, but also in
general with everyone). I also focus in a big way on personal
growth, radical honesty, open communication, and living
g-talk: odetofantasy at gmail
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Being! Living in the moment with intent. Also, I'm one of those
proud mothers who thinks that her kid is the most awesome thing
that has ever existed. I have been staying at home with him and
learning about the awesomeness of the universe because of it, but
now am looking for a job that can support us.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
reading ALL OF THE BOOKS EVER, working on being self aware, making
people feel important or special, saying random comments that
confuse you or telling entertaining stories that may or may not
make you blush, admitting when I am wrong, baking, helping small
businesses get started or expand
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that I'm probably smiling =D
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: anything by Rumi
, Robert Jordan's Wheel of Time
, C.S. Lewis' Space Trilogy, JTHM
, Lenore, The Kushiel
, The Dresden Files (really anything
), The Divine Matrix
, A New Earth
general), Harry Potter, The Mistborn Trilogy...and so many
Music: A Perfect Circle, Sia
, Tori Amos
, Regina Spektor
, The Blow
, Iron and Wine, the xx
, Wax Tailor
, Metric, Eisley,
, Sneaker Pimps, Portishead
, The Dreamer and The
, Muse, Celldweller, Kidneythieves, V.A.S.T., Lhasa De
Movies: Bandits, 12
, Pi, Boondock Saints, Amelie, Mirrormask
, Double Jeopardy, Legend,
The 5th Element, Harry Potter, Saawariya, (and way more that I
can't think of) I'm always up to finding new awesome things
Shows: Leverage, Eureka, Dr. Who
, Torchwood, Firefly, Dead Like
Me, Community, Once Upon A Time, Bones, Project Runway, all of the
cooking shows ever
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
consciousness, love , sexuality, music, books, internets (I could
probably do without all of these except consciousness, but I
wouldn't like to...)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I am working on not thinking so much...but when I do...my son, how
creepy/amazing it is that we GROW humans in our bodies, religion
vs. spirituality, adventures!, consciousness
, sex and sexuality,
, the human psyche,
healing, the cosmos, cookies, the reasons people act the way they
do, cats, cults, dreams, my mental state, my next adventure, love,
and other forms of
subconscious manipulation, neuroplasticity
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
having adventures or home with my son
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am notoriously bad at responding to messages, and I hate talking
on the phone, but persistence works with me, though it is no
Also...I'm freaked out by mustaches.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-you realize that just because i like sex and sexuality, that
doesn't necessarily mean i want to have sex with YOU (you
should know i most likely won't even meet you if you're below a 75%
match. i completely trust okc's matching algorithm because
i've met tons of people from here)
-you are a polyamorous parent
-you want an awesome new friend
-you think bookstores are heavenly and want to go on adventures
looking for them
-you are crafty
-you grew up in a cult and would like to talk to someone who
-you know awesome thrift stores that you'd like to show me
-you have a toddler (mine is 2) and think it'd be awesome for our
kids to have a playdate
-you're amazing and ridiculous but aren't arrogant and
-you have a cello and would be willing to play for me. really.
message me riiiight now. i don't care about match percentage on
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