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38 • Saint Louis, MO • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 28–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 6:28pm
- 5′ 11″ (1.80m)
- Body type
- Full figured
- Christianity, and laughing about it
- Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Open relationship
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Likes dogs and likes cats
In terms of who I am beyond all that boring stuff, I'm a mid-30s professional working in the health care industry in a broad way. I always have a book somewhere nearby, and am addicted to playing games on my iPhone. Actually, I think I'm just addicted to my iPhone! I can text all night but don't really like talking on the phone. (Note: Just because I like to text does not mean I'm going to be exchanging numbers with you immediately. I'm selective about who gets my number. I'm much more likely to give you a messenger handle.) I have a fondness for word play and bad puns, especially bad fish puns, that no one else seems to appreciate. I was raised a country girl in a town around 7,000 on a good day but love living in the city now. I find myself occasionally nostalgic for my life back in a small town. When that happens I get in my car, drive just about anywhere in St. Louis, and say a fervent prayer of thanksgiving that I am not in the middle of nowhere anymore. Small towns have their charm but the "big city" frees you to be who you are, at least in my experience.
I'm trying to think of what else to put in here but my mind is, of course, blank right now. Honestly I'm happy to talk about myself; feel free to ask me anything!
Trying to find something I'm passionate about. Or alternately, since I'm pretty sure mental health and social services work is what I'm passionate about, trying to figure out how to move ahead in the field. Hence, figuring out the next degree I need. See how that all circles back?
Non-physical I'd guess my sense of humor. It's often obscure; people don't always get my jokes. I think they're funny though and honestly? I often just want to amuse myself.
The words I use. I tend to have a rather extensive vocabulary. Often, like with my jokes, people look at me askance (see what I did there?) when I pull out some thesaurus-worthy words.
Books: The Newsflesh trilogy by Mira Grant (if you haven't read them do so now!), Daughter of the Blood, Heir to the Shadows, Queen of the Darkness by Anne Bishop (simply amazing, if you enjoy fantasy I highly recommend them), Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen (favorite book hands down if I have to pick), anything about forensics from forensic anthropology to forensic pathology whether it's fiction or non-fiction like the Diane Fallon mysteries by Beverly Connor or No Stone Unturned by Steve Jackson (about the formation of NecroSearch International).
Movies: I'm a romantic comedy kinda girl, probably because I'm a hopeless romantic. Hope Floats, Jerry Macguire, Pratical Magic and Love Actually are staples of my DVD shelf not to mention Dirty Dancing. I have a love for BBC period pieces. I own the 1995 BBC (and non-BBC 2005) version of Pride and Prejudice as well as their adaptation of Sense and Sensibility and Persuasion. I am also a huge fan of Serenity and the TV show it was spawned from. Bonus points if you know what TV show that is, more points if you like it.
Music: I listen to just about anything! I've got Michael Bublé, Train and the Glee soundtrack in playlists. I also love Trisha Yearwood, Nickelback, Matchbox 20, Barenaked Ladies, John Mayer, Joss Stone, and Melissa Etheridge. It's a good bet I've got music on in the background no matter what I'm doing and it could be anything from Melissa Etheridge's "Kiss Me" to Custom's "Beat Me" to Alanis Morisette's cover of "Let's Do It (Let's Fall in Love)". I was raised on country music but I've been branching out lately.
Shows: Big Bang Theory, Marvel's Agents of S. H. I. E. L. D., Bones, Criminal Minds, I spent a month or so binging the Travel Channel show Dead Files on Netflix and wish I could find something similar to watch now that I've exhausted all those episodes. Any recommendations? We don't have cable so most of what I watch in on Netflix.
Food: I'm not a picky eater and I'm generally pretty adventurous. I can almost always find something I'm willing to try at any restaurant but I'm going to have an easier time at Mexican, Italian, or Chinese places. I have to have Chinese buffet every so often or I go a little crazy; it's one of my weaknesses!
Books, plenty of books.
My cell phone/iPad.
Pretty string to play with and make things.
Time with friends and family.
You didn't run scared when you saw the words "open relationship" in my introduction. I really am on here for new friends and activity partners. Yes, I'm in an open relationship but I am looking for friends as well as people to date; if something would develop from that, excellent! But that isn't the sole purpose of my profile here.
You have a book you think I should try, a movie you think I should see, or a restaurant you think I would like. I love recommendations!
Better yet, you want to! Maybe something in my profile made you think of yourself, maybe something made you laugh, or maybe you just liked what you read. I'm a fun and quirky girl with a great sense of humor. I'm up for just about anything from a quiet dinner to drinks to hanging out at the bookstore! Why don't we see what trouble we can get into?
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