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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 52-65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 1
6' 4" (1.93m)
Body Type
Christianity but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
How are you? I am well. Thanks for asking. First off I have to say I admire you for being here online searching for someone nice to be with. It isn’t an easy process - a lot of rejection taken and given. And here we are.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
But where are you from? I grew up in a small town in Oklahoma, and although I left there years ago, I still have the core concepts, the basic values. On the continuum from astrology to science, I am far to the science side.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I like things that make logical sense. I like evidence. And this is true even though I have a little musical talent, and count myself as a true romantic.

I am romantic enough to maintain the singer-songwriter act I started undergrad at Stanford and to have bold plans to compile, record and perform my forty best songs.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I believe in my work as a lawyer, too. It sustains me, and not just financially. I get a lot out of it, and I love the people I work with in a small plaintiff personal injury firm in downtown Oakland.

I live in Oakland, too, in the wonderful Rockridge Neighborhood. Where do you live?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Along with my work on the law, I have also done a fair amount of work on myself. So I hope you are introspective or at least have a positive impression of therapy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I go to movies a lot, and some recent favorites are “Birdman”, “Boyhood” and “The Silver Linings Playbook”. I don’t like animation, special effects or heavy gunfire. My favorite actors are Russell Crowe and Tilda Swinton. What have you seen lately that you liked?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I have strong feelings about music - if I like a song I get goosebumps all over and my veins feel shot full of creme de menthe. I love REM, the Byrds, the Dead and Led Zeppelin.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I believe relationships are all about talk, and I like meeting a woman where it seems we could talk for hours without much effort. But I don’t like small talk. I am present, a good listener, engaging and direct. How about you?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I want to meet a woman who knows how to work through the conflicts that inevitably arise in a good relationship - a woman who can talk about what is happening in the relationship, what is happening in the moment.
You should message me if
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I hope you haven’t lost your capacity to think critically, or your sense of humor, if that makes sense. I do not see the world from an Eastern, Zen-like perspective. I like the great books of Western Civilization. I like Shakespeare.

Again, good for you for being out here, looking online - it ain’t easy. If you think we might possibly connect, please get in touch. We can talk a bit by phone and then go for coffee or a drink. Thanks, and I look forward to meeting you soon.