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63 M Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 52–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 19
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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“Sing it loud so I can hear you, make it easy to be near you...”
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Like the Beatles in "I Will", like the Gershwins in their Great American Songbook tune, "Someone to Watch Over Me", I send this message out to you, the woman I hope to meet.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Like everybody else on here, I am looking for an honest, down-to-earth, exuberant and engaging woman. Even though I am not sure what people mean by “soul mate”, I think it comes close to describing the woman I am after.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Bright, introspective women who have a good sense of humor get my attention. Conversations that are like a friendly game of catch: mutual, with lots of give-and-take, corny stuff like that, make me happy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
When I was 18 I left Oklahoma to go to Stanford, and that is when I first started to really learn about life. I am reliable, down to earth and have a healthy sense of humor, but have a tendency to be over-responsible.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Although it might be hard for you to believe, it is true: in spite of being a lawyer, I am empathetic and a good listener.

Some drama is okay. Have checked most of my baggage; the rest fits easily into the overhead compartment; and the best advice is on the safety card right there in front of you: “Put on your own oxygen mask before assisting others”.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I have strong opinions and am a little allergic to the Political Correctness that pervades the Bay Area.

I love being a lawyer. Would be nice if you also like what you do. I work with great people and we do great work.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
You know, I really like all the usual things people say here.
But it is really who you are with, not what you are doing. If you like the person, doing laundry together can be fun. I am willing to do almost anything, with the right person. I draw the line at skydiving, bungee jumping and cage fighting.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Television: “The Sopranos”, “Six Feet Under”, “Mad Men” (But who doesn’t like it?) and "The Bridge".
Movies: Too many to list, but: “Casablanca” (the best movie ever made -- did you know Ronald Reagan was the first choice to play Rick?), "Shakespeare in Love" and “E.T, the Extraterrestrial”.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Music: I am an amateur singer-songwriter, so I have a soft spot for creative musicians like Joni Mitchell, Elvis Costello, REM and Leslie Feist, among so many others.

Reading: New York Times, New Yorker, Vanity Fair, Esquire; and Neil Young’s autobiography.

And you know, if you think that all of this stuff is too serious, none of it is set in stone -- it is all subject to revision.