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oenophelia

52 F Manchester, NH

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:57am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Management
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
**BEWARE- The following qualifies as 10 minutes that you'll never get back. Proceed with caution!***

Not going to lie. I am finding this online stuff boring. It's trite and highly redundant. But here I am. And there you are.

I will say that I have very little tolerance for anyone that is disrespectful, indignant or impolite. And I don't mean with me, because I can handle myself...but rather with others and in the world in which we live. (like people that bark at a young sales clerk who can't "honor" their coupon, or people that throw their cigarette butts out the window, or deliberately litter. Who do they think is picking that up? But I digress)

I am purposefully renting versus owning, so that if something magical comes along...I can simply go for it. I try to live without fear.

I tend to gravitate towards intellect and wit. Since they both tend to go hand-in-hand. I like quirky. I like artsy. But not that pissed-off-at-the-world-kind of artsy. Just someone that has some sort of a design eye, can see and appreciate form, and has a sense of style.

Smart is sexy. And I adore witty banter.

I also need someone that is fit and athletic. I enjoy movement, and need to be active. I am sorry if it's insulting, but everyone has their preferences. Having a fit partner is one of mine.

I am genuinely a happy person. I made a conscious decision a while back to only surround myself with people that bring in joy. I have no time for the "Eyor" mentality. Negativity is an anchor. And quite frankly, it's boring. My goodness, look around you right now. I am fairly certain that you could find at least 5 people that are worse off than you!

I am healthy, well-adjusted, sensual and sexual. For some reason when women say such things they're "tagged" as being a certain "way". How silly. I spent most of my adult life in search of my better self. I found her. I like her. And would love to share it all with someone that's worthy of receiving her.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to learn how to work smarter, not harder.
I’m really good at
...kissing
...designing with old finds. (both inside & in the garden)
...being a fierce friend
...pairing wine with food
...being happy
...making you happy
...engaging in conversations
...reading people
...being slightly irreverant & a wee bit sarcastic
...swinging a bat
...finding a kick-butt deal (on anything)
...self-deprecation
...watching baseball, March Madness, tennis, hockey & the NFL
...the hand-written note
...dressing up
...dressing down
...being bored with complacency
...being positive
...finding beauty
...being playful & flirty (& teasing, of course)
...making you smile (see above)
...growing a mean garden
...throwing a frisbee
...commentaries
...being a girl
...making people laugh
...creating beautiful spaces
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile...as I use it often.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love all of the food that comes with changing seasons. Fresh anything and everything. I am a girl that really likes to eat. I try to buy local and support our NH/ MA/ ME farms. But Sushi in this little place in town is my All-time favorite. I actually crave it. (like even right now)

I think that I am the only one left in the world that doesn't have a big flat screen TV. Mine has a large bulbous back and weighs 75 lbs. I think that if I move, it's staying here. Despite my viewing challenges I still enjoy watching the Family Guy, Bob's Burgers (hilarious), Modern Family, Boardwalk Empire, Arrested Development (actually most things Ron Howard) Game of Thrones, True Detective, & anything historical, biographical or a great documentary. The Office still makes me laugh...out loud. I love football season and all of the creature comforts that go along with it. I'll go see anything at the movies. The big screen is still fun! (obviously for me, VERY fun)

I am all over the map with my music tastes. To list a few...James Brown, Sly and the Family Stone, Rage against the Machine, Chris Cornell, The Ramones, Old Seattle grunge, Al Green, Tool, Daddy Yankee, Pharrell, Old Chili Peppers, Radiohead, John Legend, The Stones, White Stripes, Snoop, Marley, Godsmack, Liszt, The Pixies, Petty, Tool, Black Keys, Foo Fighters, Depeche Mode, 50, Ludwig, Kravitz (secret crush), Alice in Chains...(told you...ALL over the map)
The six things I could never do without
1) Good cup o' joe in the morning
2) Sunday mornings at the beach with that good cup o' joe
3) My eyesight...still too much to see
4) Playing in the dirt
5) Laughing with my best friend & her amazing kids
6) Mint Chocolate Chip Ice cream
7) Slow soft kisses
8) A great connection with ONE amazing man
9) Some sort of design project
10) My kick ass cowboy boots and favorite jeans and t-shirt
11) Eggs and bacon
12) More bacon
13) A calculator
I spend a lot of time thinking about
my sock drawer. It's atrocious.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–55
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
If you would like to be in the company of a smart, funny and sensual woman.