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ofdawnanddew

58 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:04pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism
Sign
Virgo
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Politics / Government
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Always had passions in my life, for politics and theatre, for words, for broadcast journalism, for silence and cleverness, for cast recordings and vocalists, for morning in the mountains; for folks with a sense for irony and empathy, who struggle to figure it all out and find the process itself the most interesting part.

But enough of what I have to say. I decided to find out what others might say about me. Here goes, unexpurgated and unvarnished:
"He is the best listener I know, genuinely interested, curious, questioning - and he remembers what you say. I love to talk with him about politics, theatre, people, really just about anything because what he says is thoughtful, original, informed, perceptive. And he's never, ever boring. He's funny - very funny (and he appreciates that you're funny), sharp and smart, sweet and kind, generous, loving, warm and human."

"He balances a soulful nature with intellectual rigor. His sense of humor and compassion are prized, as is his ability to bring out the best in those he cares about."
I’m really good at
putting words together; questioning myself; listening and expressing support; thinking critically (ain't a Virgo for nothing)
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyeglasses. Someone recently said I have a "consistent look," which was meant as a compliment, I think - like Maria Callas in Master Class...only not nearly so grand.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Recently read a book I devoured called Double Life, about a male couple who have been together for over 50 years, starting in New York in the '50's. Tales and photos of mid-century New York life and lore are a big draw for me.

The Talented Mr. Ripley, The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie, A Separation, All The President's Men, Moonstruck; then, of course, there's Downton Abbey and Mad Men and Homeland. Still want to catch up with The Wire.

Read The New Yorker and The Times (in some form or other) religiously; Rachel Maddow, Chris Hayes and Melissa Harris-Perry.

Musical voices that sound lived-in: Cook, Carroll, Kiley, Clooney, and Cleo, to name a few. Or those that sound like great trumpets: Merman, Morrow, Johnson. Or the trumpets and brass themselves, especially in a great Jule Styne overture - the overture to "Subways Are For Sleeping" sends me over the moon.
The six things I could never do without
Music, especially listening in my car while driving upstate, or listening to Pandora on my new ihome while cooking;
My iWhatnots - keeping me connected to the world;
the ability to get away from the city most weekends, and the ability to come back;
sleep and solitude, walks, and work.
chocolate in various forms, and blueberries
spring and summer and long days
On a typical Friday night I am
Either at my house upstate or driving up there. Experiencing the silence and smelling the country air is heaven.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 38–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating