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offkilterlibra

38 Colorado Springs, CO Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:31am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Friends say I'm creative, passionate, and versatile. (I couldn't get a celebrity endorsement). Tattoos. Apolitical. Non-religious. Tolerant.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Design. Fine art. Publishing. Networking. Writing. Fitness. Managing 4 creative websites. Showing art in venues throughout April 2015.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
...whatever inspires me, making a mess, staying fit, cooking, cleaning and organizing spaces (after I'm done making a mess), daydreaming, shrinking clothes in the laundry, and more when you know me...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Calm voice. Brown eyes. Necklaces that I bead/wear.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
---Music---
Sam Cooke, Faith No More, St. Vincent, Babes in Toyland, Prince, Azam Ali, Soundgarden, Juno Reactor, Depeche Mode, The Cramps, Concrete Blonde, Erykah Badu, Birthday Massacre, Queens of the Stone Age, Jeff Buckley, trance, punk, rock, many more...

---Books---
Mythology, psychology, cultural anthropology, comics.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Hope
- Authenticity
- Communication/Expression
- Accomplishment
- Relationships (platonic and romantic)
- Quiet reflection
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...sex, song lyrics, bad puns, dirty words, obscene make-believe band names, cloud shapes, my next art project, and what I'm forgetting before I walk out the door.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...seeing a concert or movie, checking out art shows, hiking, cooking, chatting, daydreaming, painting, beading, reading, or writing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Boxers. I wear my sweatshirts and socks inside-out. Man-crushes on Bill Bixby and 80s Val Kilmer. I love people, but dislike dating. I once woke up in a room full of wasps.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...you noticed I have spinach in my teeth in one of my photos, and you're trying to help me out.
...you're artsy, unique, or just plain passionate about something that makes you happy.