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ofthewillow

20 / F / Bisexual / Single

Vista, California

Her Details

Last Online
Jun 15
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.61m).
Body Type
Overweight
Diet
Anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Student
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I feel that any summary that I give of myself would fail to be entirely accurate, partially because I don't feel that I'm always the same person (which I mean in a mostly-sane way).
What I can say, however, is that I'm someone who is easily bored, but tends to require a slight push to start anything new. Once I get started on something I really enjoy, however (such as an excellent novel), I have a tendency of developing a very intense interest for as long as my focus lasts.
Beyond that, when I took the Myers-Briggs test, I seem to recall that I was labelled an "INFP".

Lastly, I feel that I should mention the fact that, while I'm open to getting to know people, especially as friends, I'm cautious about meeting up. At the very least, I'd like to spend some time messaging someone beforehand.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm taking a break from school over the summer in favor of work, reading, and general leisure. Hopefully, I'll have a few adventures mixed into the next couple of months, too.
I’m really good at
I'm told that I'm good at writing, thinking, and being entertaining. I'd like to think that I'm pretty decent at gaming, but an expert gamer might not agree with me.
The first things people usually notice about me
It would probably be my eyes or my smile. Of course, for some, it might be my body type...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Some of my favorite books are /Brave New World/, /1984/, /Cat's Cradle/, and /Clockwork Orange/.
As far as movies, I enjoyed /Natural Born Killers/, /Suicide Club/, and /Pan's Labyrinth/.
My taste in music is defined more by what I dislike than what I enjoy. I'm not a huge fan of heavy metal (specifically, the part that involves a man screeching and/or growling), I strongly dislike most rap or hip hop, and if country is also usually out if it doesn't have rock mixed into it. A lot of pop music isn't to my tastes, either.
I'm interested in trying almost all kinds of food, but Italian and Chinese are generally my favorite types.
The six things I could never do without
... are my eyeglasses, interesting reading materials, my cell phone, my cat, the Internet, and a minimum of one sex toy of good quality.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
... hypothetical situations.
On a typical Friday night I am
... either killing time by playing a video game or doing random things on the Internet, or looking for something to do outside of the house.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
... varies based on whom I happen to be speaking with, so it's difficult to pick one specific thing to make public.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 18–26
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
... you think we might enjoy each other's company.
At this point, I should probably point out that I don't expect to enjoy your company if you can't spell simple words, confuse there/they're/their or your/you're, or think that it's acceptable to use an excessive amount of shorthand.