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oh-brother

37 / M / straight / Single

Seattle, Washington

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Virgo
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
Kids
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English

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My Self-Summary

Well, if this seems at all witty or clever, there's that. Smarter than some people, and not totally uninteresting, but humble if you can believe. Nice--pretty much offended by people who aren't--but I do like talking shit. 1/3 highbrow 2/3 lowbrow and not much in between. Loyal, honest. I'm a musician. Ergo, I spend a lot of time playing music. I read a lot, very slowly. Cynical, but I like to think I use it to comic effect. I work with mentally ill adults, so my work stories are, by definition, crazy. Nascent outdoorsman. Call it a "youthful predispostion" or "immaturity" but i rarely act my age.

The first things people usually notice about me

I honestly don't know. Good question, OK Cupid.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: are awesome. Read them slowly. High lowbrow to Low highbrow.

Movies: Do not watch enough, but have been on a Herzog kick, lately. Cried at the end of Die Hard. Enjoy anything seen on a plane, especially anything involving cats and dogs.

Music: Weird punk stuff. Weird dance stuff. Normal soul stuff, rock stuff.

The six things I could never do without

Bad humor
Drums
Friends
Books
Pho
Trees

You should message me if

You are: Smart, funny, sensitive, kind, and with at least an appreciation of sarcasm. If you have the word "goddess" in your username, it's probably not going to work out. Into music. Opinionated but mannered. Funny. Someone with moral and intellectual standards. Someone with reasonable moral and intellectual standards. I like to think that all of my friends are just really cool, smart, funny people, so that should be you, too.