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46 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:57pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Working on Ph.D program
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I like:

to wake up to the sunrise

make it back home in time for the same in reverse

to walk in beauty

to laugh, including at myself

a good purpose in life

to stay calm, see it through the storm

to say 'thank you' with something in hand

to give my word only when I can live up to it

to be financially independent - because I am!
What I’m doing with my life
Decided to change up my Canadian Federal law enforcement career and now I am completing the internship year towards a Doctorate in Clinical Psychology and work as a therapist with Native American non-profits. I worked with the First Nations community back home too.

My dissertation (now ready for committee defense), helps to better fund culturally relevant treatment in the Native American community.
I’m really good at
I have a farming background, so fixing or building things makes me happy. Thanks Dad!
The first things people usually notice about me
My rambunctious laughter that gets carried away into snorting.

After aboot three sentences into a conversation that I have a Canadian accent, well, because I'm a crazy Winnipeger (just 3 hours North of Fargo ND, where they can get creative with their wood-chippers).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
-have a dance on me! Grease Vs Dr Dre & Snoop Dog Mashup:

-Biographies are inspiring.

-Any movie from Studio Ghibli and Hayao Miyazaki.

-Seafood is always a top choice for me. I could happily live the rest of my life eating only blue berries and salmon.
The six things I could never do without
Opportunities to enrich others;

Love, because it is expandable, it can encompass this whole universe, it can heal;

Nature (i.e. sunshine, hiking, sleeping under stars);

The mysterious and unknown;

Crows, because they are my animal protectors;

my six senses (and just as important, yours);

and lucky #7: Orr Hot Springs - mmmm.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
As a psychology nerd, I recently uncovered this nugget: Ninety-six percent of women reported that they like neck kisses, while only about 10% of men do, so a guy will not even believe that a girl likes being kissed on the neck because it doesn’t really do anything for him. So sad. I'd like to do my part to fix this stat. Hmm, the odds a neck kiss make a woman happy are a whopping 1 in 1.04.
On a typical Friday night I am
singing: "tonight, gotta leave that nine to five up on the shelf, an' just enjoy yourself."
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I mistakenly used the Dalai Lama's porta potty at an outdoor talk he did just outside of Delhi. I maybe, just maybe, should have noticed the beautifully decorated tent keeping it shady from the hot sun. And then I had that sinking feeling once inside... wha?!? a carefully folded white towel! Something's not right here. Thankfully the security monk was laughing about the whole thing afterwards. BTW, HHDL uses dove soap. And yes, I believe that this happy accident will result in me being reincarnated into a better life. I also got in touch with my inner Larry David which happens more often than I'd like.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
I simply cannot resist bright, sunny, authentic, squinty eye smiles. Do you have one? Great. Do you share it frequently? Better Yet!

You take care of your body, mind and spirit.

Agree that the 'Michelangelo phenomenon' makes for a great partner.

Like quotes like this one from Rumi: "Lovers don't finally meet somewhere. They're in each other all along."