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41 Redmond, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 28–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I just moved back to (the) Seattle (area) after a few years in California, where I learned a lot about my trade but made no money. Now I am poor. But I'm starting my own business, so that should fix that right up, right?

I make eye contact and listen closely. I crave quality interaction. I'm interested in just about everything, and I love to think about things intensely and thoroughly! and talk about them! (So please don't be one of those people who says, "You think a lot.") I love to laugh and once in a while I even say something kind of funny. I'm fairly comfortable with myself and can handle intense situations pretty well. I've done a few unusual things with my life, like study music in India. I like walking around in nature but I'm not hardcore. (I'm afraid I don't understand the appeal of rock climbing. Sorry!) I find I'm often out of step with what everyone else is into... but I did get bored with digital photography and I'm shooting mostly film these days; walking around with an old film camera hanging from my neck definitely puts me in a certain hipster category.

I tend to get INFP when I take that test, but my "I" score is very low. I'm pretty outgoing.

I was inspired by another user to take the 5 love languages test:

12 Physical Touch
8 Quality Time
5 Acts of Service
5 Words of Affirmation
0 Receiving Gifts
What I’m doing with my life
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Helping people solve problems. Taking photos. Writing. Reading. Exercising, bike riding, walking, hiking, and generally trying to balance being fit and healthy with being well read.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Understanding and using the English language. Being specific and not generalizing. Listening. Seeing things in different ways. Scrabble. I think I'm getting pretty good at photography.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Glasses or beard first, I suppose. Then my friendliness. Then my thoughtfulness (in either sense of that word).

Some people I know have never noticed my sense of humor, which makes me sad. :-( But a few people notice it right away, so I guess I can't complain too much.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Howards End by E.M. Forster

The Lion in Winter (O'Toole/Hepburn, not Stewart/Close)

The Daily Show

Can't pick one favorite music, so here are several favorites: Beethoven, Diane Birch, The Black Keys, Florence + The Machine, Hariprasad Chaurasia, several Indian musicians named Khan, Melody Gardot, Neko Case, later Philip Glass, Rachael Yamagata, Soundgarden, U2, Willie Nelson

Homemade Indian
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Oh, you know, the usual.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Lately I've mostly been thinking about my business: how to advertise/pitch it, how to explain what I do, how to train other people to do it, and how not to bore my date to death by talking too much about it. Seriously, it's a danger. My head is full of this crap these days. ("I'm passionate about what I do" is the positive way of saying that.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Oh, you know, the usual.
You should message me if
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you're cute and smart and you think we might get along.