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ohepi

25 Baton Rouge, LA Genderfluid, Genderqueer

Genderfluid, Genderqueer

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–30
  • Located anywhere
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 9:08am
Orientation
Sapiosexual, Pansexual
Ethnicity
Black, Native American, Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Administration
Income
Less than $20,000
Status
Single
Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Dislikes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Russian (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
[NOTE: see list of likes for more clues to conversation starters.]

sorry. no longer interested in just sex. casual or hookup seekers please keep moving.

If I clicked "Like" and did not message you, I probably felt like I didn't possess adequate opening. I hate saying just "hi" and some of you are so beautiful I have to stop myself from saying only that.

amateurish photographer. here's my shit, take a look.
Show me your art and be part of mine. Are you weird? I'm weird. Let's be weird and make weirdness together.

Skype/KIK: ask!

If you have ever honestly said "TL;DR" and MEANT it, go away. it takes longer than 140 characters to talk to me.

I am not down to earth. I am the earth. And also a couple hurricanes and a tree.

open tolong distance relationships. Non-monogamous Genderqueer.

Possible hedonist, possible Objectivist. We can talk about it if you want.

I don't like dogs. I do like cats. I read obsessively.
I do recreational substances sparingly.

Into BDSM (ask for my fetlife), but not into forcing anything on anyone else.

Not a social justice warrior but I support the right to live your private life as you choose.

I'm the real weirdo next door.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
working. wishing i was taking more pictures.

drinking. reading. drinking while reading. reading while drinking.
exploring BDSM. hating 50 Shades.

absolutely hating hollywood for making movie bastardizations of damned near every fucking book i ever liked.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
singing, wasting time, spending too much money, organizing anyone's life as long as it isn't mine.
making men into gods and then crushing them.
acquiring babies not produced by my body. (i.e. adopting pets and growing plants and taking care of people.)
complaining.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
messy dreads. loud voice. tight clothes/"boyish" clothes depending on my mood...or on other occasions a lack of clothes.

I have four cats and a rat.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
THIS IS THE LONG PART.

BOOKS: note: i. love. historical. fiction. especially if it's set during World War II.

the fountainhead.
love walked in.

most anne rice vampire books are a go.
a density of souls and the snow garden.

young adult fiction like [sarah dessen], [francesca lia block, david levithan.
e.e cummings' works. the sandman series.
Poems 4 A.M.

i liked John Green before it somehow became cool. shit yeah, i'm now a hipster.
JOHN GRISHAM.

Any book featuring Aloysius Pendergast.

James Rollins.

almost anything to do with personal perspectives of WWII-- diaries of Holocaust victims or stories dealing with the Holocaust like Number the Stars or Night or I Lived a Thousand Years or Sophie's Choice or Soldier X or...yeah, i could go for a while.

MUSIC: genres/examples:

rock (tool, a perfect circle, puscifer (anything maynard james keenan touches i'll probably love), robin trower, huey lewis and the news, editors, mew, ra ra riot, the shins, dave matthews band, led zeppelin)
classical (philip glass, ottorino respighi, vivaldi)
whatever parov stelar is
electronic/house similar tostromae
whatever john mayer is
hip-hop (digable planets)
R&B like Sade, Kevon Edmonds, Jill Scott, Goapele...
music in european languages (kaizers orchestra)
countryish (rascal flatts, dixie chicks, randy travis, alan jackson)

i like a tiny bit of j-pop. and j-rock. not much at all though, because i find asian languages dysphonic as hell.

MOVIES: hm. that's more difficult to answer. one of my favorites is no reservations. boys don't cry, august rush, factory girl, evening, talk to me, the avengers movie and avengers: age of ultron. the collection. you're next. now is good. Saw.

FOOD: zesty/"southwestern" food. my mom's gumbo. tomato basil soup. zucchini. pizza. salmon teriyaki. artisan cheeses.

(did you really read this far? i might quiz you.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
books. movies. words. lists. my mom. structure. organization in chaos. the ability to think. clitorises. dicks. assholes. fingers. notebooks to write in. black ink pens. stationery to write letters. choices.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
sex. self expression. work. what i want in a relationship. what i want for myself/my life. kink. my mom and if she is okay.
how i want to decorate my apartment.

whether fucking someone when you first meet them automatically means you doomed any potential for a relationship no matter what.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
reading. complaining about having too few close acquaintances. hanging with my best friend on earth.doing internet things. reeeaaaading.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i support the theory of forced population control as a means of working to stem the loss of resources and of counteracting homelessness, but i cannot determine how one would implement this without it eventually stretching from controlling one right of human beings to controlling all their rights. so i don't talk about it.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you are interested in a relationship.sorry, no more casual sex.

you read more than you play video games. seriously, does anyone else read voraciously anymore? am i alone? hello? is this thing on?

you are submissive or a switch and interested in exploring a D/s relationship with me.

you want to, i guess.