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ohepi

25 Baton Rouge, LA Genderfluid, Genderqueer

Genderfluid, Genderqueer

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:06pm
Orientation
Sapiosexual, Pansexual
Ethnicity
Black, Native American, Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Administration
Income
Less than $20,000
Status
Single
Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Dislikes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Russian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
[NOTE: see list of likes for more clues to conversation starters.]

Amateurish photographer. Former writer of "poetry". Show me your art.

I don't drive, so if you live outside the US or can't/don't want to travel, keep looking. If you do, I can help pay for gas, because gas prices are a bitch.
Please do not message me looking for hookups. I want at the least a friend (FRIEND) with benefits; at most, a relationship of some sort. Also, if you can't spell, go away.

Non-monogamous. Genderqueer. Possible hedonist, possible Objectivist-- more research is need on both before I claim the titles. We can talk about it if you want.

I don't like dogs. I do like cats. I read obsessively. Paper, not electronic.
I drink fairly often. I do recreational substances sparingly.

Into BDSM (find me on fetlife), but not into forcing anything on anyone else.

Strong supporter of the right to decide for yourself what you call yourself, what you do with yourself, what you think, etc. Pro-choosing every aspect of one's private life in other words.

I sing well. I'm not very nice...at all. I can call up a whole roster of people to confirm this if you think I'm exaggerating.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
working.
drinking. reading. drinking while reading. reading while drinking.
exploring BDSM. find me on fetlife.

absolutely hating hollywood for making movie bastardizations of damned near every fucking book i ever liked.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
singing, writing, wasting time, spending too much money, organizing anyone's life as long as it isn't mine...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
messy dreads. loud voice. tight clothes/"boyish" clothes depending on my mood...or on other occasions a lack of clothes.

the cat i walk in a harness. i was once called "foolish" for this, but Risotto isn't complaining.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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boo this section. i'll always forget to mention some really important book or movie or band that i love, so i hate writing lists. right now anyway:

BOOKS: note: i. love. historical. fiction. especially if it's set during World War II.

the fountainhead.
love walked in.

most anne rice vampire books are a go. so are almost all of her son's, especially a density of souls and the snow garden.

i also like a lot of young adult fiction like sarah dessen and kevin brooks, and i admit freely to liking zoey dean's a list series as well. sometimes you just need books about bitchy privileged preteens, i guess. i also love e.e cummings' works and neil gaiman's sandman series, though i don't care much for anything else of gaiman's thus far. fantasy and sci-fi aren't really my bag, except in certain situations.

i liked John Green before it somehow became cool. shit yeah, i'm now a hipster.

LOVE ME SOME JOHN GRISHAM.

Any book featuring Aloysius Pendergast. Marry me, Pendergast. A lot of other Preston and Child books are fucking great too.

James Rollins.

both YA and adult nonfiction and fiction dealing with WWII-- diaries of Holocaust victims or stories dealing with the Holocaust like Number the Stars or Night or I Lived a Thousand Years or Sophie's Choice or Soldier X or...yeah, i could go for a while.

(edit of former GoT ramble): finished the series thus far! the winds of winter needs to be published now. a dance with dragons infuriated me.

MUSIC: tool, a perfect circle, puscifer (anything maynard james keenan touches i'll probably love), incubus, philip glass, parov stelar, stromae, john mayer, the mars volta, raised by swans, digable planets, vivaldi, ottorino respighi, revis, daft punk's tron soundtrack, Бис, Žalvarinis (i like music in other languages--except in asian languages), john mayer, kaizers orchestra, hawksley workman, editors (but not In This Light and On This Evening, I just really did not like that album), led zeppelin, chevelle, sade, busdriver, rascal flatts, as tall as lions, huey lewis and the news, robin trower...

dave matthews band.

i like a tiny bit of j-pop. and j-rock. not much at all though, because i find asian languages dysphonic as hell.

MOVIES: hm. that's more difficult to answer. one of my favorites is no reservations. i also love boys don't cry, august rush, factory girl, evening, the dreamers, up in the air, a goofy movie, the taking of pelham 123, talk to me, 500 days of summer...and oh my god i fucking love the avengers movie. the collection. you're next. iron man is my future husband. laugh all you want, i'm a little obsessed with tony stark as portrayed by RDJ. (isn't everyone?)

FOOD. i fucking love zesty food. southwestern and mexican foods are orgasmic. i am addicted to tomato basil soup from carrabba's and i will eat damned near anything with tomatoes in it if it's zesty, especially with cheese. i also love mint chocolate and peanut butter with chocolate, as well as chocolate with caramel. i hate dark chocolate. i was introduced to pho last year and that shit's good as hell too. so is salmon teriyaki.

(did you really read this far? man, either you're bored or you really want to get laid.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
books. movies. words. lists. my mom. structure. organization in chaos. the ability to think. clitorises. dicks. assholes. fingers. notebooks to write in. black ink pens. stationery to write letters. choices.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
me. drugs. liquor. my job. white people. my place on the spectra of gender identities, political ideologies, social groups, roles, sexual positions, and many other sociological subjects.
psychology and sociology.
cat biology. cat psychology. cat anatomy. cat care.
music. french. russian.
touching naked women and hearing them moan. feeling a man inside me. being inside a man or a transwoman.
transwomen and why i'm attracted to them.
kink.
sex toys.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
feeling frustrated because once again my check is gone before i could even count the money.
working. reading. drinking. some combination of two of those three things. watching netflix. contemplating my identity and how unstable it is at my age, and how much that pisses me off.
buying things on ebay.
buying books.
being irresponsible with money.
wishing i were less irresponsible.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i support the theory of forced population control as a means of working to stem the loss of resources and of counteracting homelessness, but i cannot determine how one would implement this without it eventually stretching from controlling one right of human beings to controlling all their rights. so i don't talk about it.
You should message me if
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the things in my self-summary intrigue you in a manner which makes you want to talk to me about them or become involved in some form of _ship with me (friend-, romantic relation-, casual relation-, et cetera).

you fucking love to read. it doesn't matter what, though of course if we strongly differ in book taste it might cause friction when it comes to discussing books. we can just read side by side if that's the case.

you have thick skin but are not stoic.

you are a hipster. but only the kind i like.