Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
This Package Contains (if any of the following describes a
person in opposition to your preferred romantic partner, please
avid reader (BOOKS > VIDEO GAMES, BOOKS / VIDEO GAMES, BOOKS.
OVER. VIDEO GAMES.)
nonreligious. mentally ill (working on coping).
genderqueer, NOT girl and NOT boy. please LOOK IT UP, ASK
AROUND, EDUCATE YOURSELF
. currently overweight. pansexual(?)
(LOOK IT UP, ASK AROUND, EDUCATE YOURSELF
about essentially everything, from abortion to sexual partners
(including number of) to labels. (i like labels. i just don't like
more, with feeling: LOOK IT UP, ASK AROUND, EDUCATE
.) judgmental (read: loudly opinionated, not always
negatively but often.)
i really don't understand why i have to keep answering this
question so: NO I DO NOT DATE SOLELY WITHIN MY ETHNIC GROUP
I DATE WHOEVER APPEALS TO ME, PLEASE STOP ASKING
. it's like
you're asking if I'm sexually racist or something.
this list is incomplete so that you have things to learn and to
give me room to add and remove as i grow/change my mind about which
labels are most important to serve up first. take heed. i will not
show mercy to those who do not pay attention. especially since
reading is my shit.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
i'm trying to determine what is important in my self (not myself,
but My Self) to keep and what i need to discard in order to better
i then confuse, frighten and anger myself trying to determine how
to achieve that betterment.
mostly i'm working and drinking and quitting drinking and resuming
drinking and reading and reading and reading and reading and
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
judging, ironically (ish). reading. singing. acquiring cats.
irritating people with my negativity and then confusing other
people when i tell them that others find me too negative ("but
you're such a people person!").
so basically: contradicting myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i guess my hair. i prefer it to be messy, so it often is.
my best friend is white and androgynous, so actually people usually
aren't noticing me, they're noticing her and then staring because i
kissed her or something. oh well. kid's beautiful as fuck, i can't
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
THIS IS THE LONG PART. I AM NOT SORRY. If you are capable of
reading but don't we probably will not have much in common.
Especially if you don't read because it "takes too long" or you
actually use "TL;DR".
: note: i. love. historical. fiction.
if it's set during World War II
most anne rice
vampire books are a go.
and the snow garden
like sarah dessen
, francesca lia block
, rachel cohn
works. the sandman series
(Baudelaire) even though that doctor was confused that
someone my age was reading it at that time.
i liked John
before it somehow became cool. shit yeah, i'm now a
Any book featuring Aloysius Pendergast
almost anything to do with personal perspectives of WWII-- diaries of Holocaust victims or
stories dealing with the Holocaust like Number the Stars or Night
or I Lived a Thousand Years or Sophie's Choice or Soldier X
or...yeah, i could go for a while.
, a perfect circle
puscifer (anything maynard james keenan
touches i'll probably love), robin trower, huey lewis and the news,
editors, mew, ra ra riot, the shins, dave matthews band
, led zeppelin
, ottorino respighi, vivaldi)
electronic/house similar tostromae
hip-hop (digable planets
R&B like Sade
, Jill Scott, Goapele...
music in european languages (kaizers orchestra)
countryish (rascal flatts, dixie chicks, randy travis, alan
i like a tiny bit of j-pop. and j-rock. not much at all though,
because i find asian languages dysphonic as hell.
MOVIES: hm. that's more difficult to answer. one of my favorites is
no reservations. boys don't cry
, august rush
, factory girl
talk to me
and avengers: age of
. you're next
. now is good
FOOD: zesty/"southwestern" food. my mom's gumbo. tomato basil soup.
zucchini. pizza. salmon teriyaki. artisan cheeses.
(did you really read this far? i might quiz you.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
books. movies. words. music. lists. my mom. structure. organization
in chaos. the ability to think. clitorises. dicks. assholes.
fingers. cameras. notebooks to write in. black ink pens. stationery
to write letters. choices. kinky people. let's be honest, some
small amount of alcohol (while my consumption has decreased
considerably, i am still what i am).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
sex. self expression. work. what i want in a relationship. what i
want for myself/my life. kink. my mom and if she is okay.
how i want to decorate my apartment.
whether fucking someone when you first meet them automatically
means you doomed any potential for a relationship no matter what.
and if it does, why that is the case. why men think "i don't want
to fuck you if you fuck as you please" is a justifiable point of
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
reading. hanging with my best friend on earth. doing internet
things. reading! fiddling with my camera. watching/rewatching
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i have a bad habit of sabotaging potential relationships due to a
terror of further rejections, and i don't let shit go easily. be
patient and be brave; i need you to.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you are interested in a relationship. sorry, no more casual
you read more than you play video games. seriously, does anyone
else read voraciously anymore? am i alone? hello? is this thing
you are submissive
or a switch and interested
in exploring a D/s
relationship with me ALONGSIDE FORMING A CONNECTION, NOT INSTEAD
you want to, i guess.
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