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ohepi

25 Baton Rouge, LA Genderfluid, Genderqueer

Genderfluid, Genderqueer

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–30
  • Located anywhere
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Orientation
Sapiosexual, Pansexual, Queer, Demisexual
Ethnicity
Black, Native American, Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Administration
Income
Less than $20,000
Status
Single
Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Dislikes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Russian (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
This Package Contains (if any of the following describes a person in opposition to your preferred romantic partner, please move along):

avid reader. anime-strongly-disliker. drinker. nonreligious. mentally ill (working on coping). genderqueer, NOT girl and NOT boy. please LOOK IT UP, ASK AROUND, EDUCATE YOURSELF. currently overweight. pansexual(?) (LOOK IT UP, ASK AROUND, EDUCATE YOURSELF.)

pro-choice about essentially everything, from abortion to sexual partners (including number of) to labels. (i like labels. i just don't like inaccurate labels.)

kinky switch (once more, with feeling: LOOK IT UP, ASK AROUND, EDUCATE YOURSELF.) judgmental (read: loudly opinionated, not always negatively but often.)

this list is incomplete so that you have things to learn and to give me room to add and remove as i grow/change my mind about which labels are most important to serve up first. take heed. i will not show mercy to those who do not pay attention. especially since reading is my shit.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
i'm trying to determine what is important in my self (not myself, but My Self) to keep and what i need to discard in order to better my life.
i then confuse, frighten and anger myself trying to determine how to achieve that betterment.

mostly i'm working and drinking and quitting drinking and resuming drinking and reading and reading and reading and reading and
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
judging, ironically (ish). reading. singing. acquiring cats. irritating people with my negativity and then confusing other people when i tell them that others find me too negative ("but you're such a people person!").

so basically: contradicting myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i guess my hair. i prefer it to be messy, so it often is.
my best friend is white and androgynous, so actually people usually aren't noticing me, they're noticing her and then staring because i kissed her or something. oh well. kid's beautiful as fuck, i can't blame you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
THIS IS THE LONG PART. I AM NOT SORRY.

BOOKS: note: i. love. historical. fiction. especially if it's set during World War II.

the fountainhead.
love walked in.

most anne rice vampire books are a go.
a density of souls and the snow garden.

young adult fiction like [sarah dessen], [francesca lia block, david levithan.
e.e cummings' works. the sandman series.
Poems 4 A.M.

i liked John Green before it somehow became cool. shit yeah, i'm now a hipster.
JOHN GRISHAM.

Any book featuring Aloysius Pendergast.

James Rollins.

almost anything to do with personal perspectives of WWII-- diaries of Holocaust victims or stories dealing with the Holocaust like Number the Stars or Night or I Lived a Thousand Years or Sophie's Choice or Soldier X or...yeah, i could go for a while.

MUSIC: genres/examples:

rock (tool, a perfect circle, puscifer (anything maynard james keenan touches i'll probably love), robin trower, huey lewis and the news, editors, mew, ra ra riot, the shins, dave matthews band, led zeppelin)
classical (philip glass, ottorino respighi, vivaldi)
whatever parov stelar is
electronic/house similar tostromae
whatever john mayer is
hip-hop (digable planets)
R&B like Sade, Kevon Edmonds, Jill Scott, Goapele...
music in european languages (kaizers orchestra)
countryish (rascal flatts, dixie chicks, randy travis, alan jackson)

i like a tiny bit of j-pop. and j-rock. not much at all though, because i find asian languages dysphonic as hell.

MOVIES: hm. that's more difficult to answer. one of my favorites is no reservations. boys don't cry, august rush, factory girl, evening, talk to me, the avengers movie and avengers: age of ultron. the collection. you're next. now is good. Saw.

FOOD: zesty/"southwestern" food. my mom's gumbo. tomato basil soup. zucchini. pizza. salmon teriyaki. artisan cheeses.

(did you really read this far? i might quiz you.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
books. movies. words. lists. my mom. structure. organization in chaos. the ability to think. clitorises. dicks. assholes. fingers. notebooks to write in. black ink pens. stationery to write letters. choices.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
sex. self expression. work. what i want in a relationship. what i want for myself/my life. kink. my mom and if she is okay.
how i want to decorate my apartment.

whether fucking someone when you first meet them automatically means you doomed any potential for a relationship no matter what.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
reading. complaining about having too few close acquaintances. hanging with my best friend on earth.doing internet things. reeeaaaading.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i have a bad habit of sabotaging potential relationships due to a terror of further rejections, and i don't let shit go easily. be patient and be brave; i need you to.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you are interested in a relationship.sorry, no more casual sex.

you read more than you play video games. seriously, does anyone else read voraciously anymore? am i alone? hello? is this thing on?

you are submissive or a switch and interested in exploring a D/s relationship with me.

you want to, i guess.