Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Born-and-bred Chicagoan. Queer/genderqueer of the trans-masculine
variety. A maker of many things. Knee-deep in a self-inflicted
second adolescence. Overly fond of hyphenation.
What I’m doing with my life
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Seeking. Observing. Creating. Challenging. Laughing. Persevering.
Hoping. Building. Believing. Reflecting. Napping. Holding. Growing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Decorating my apartment with vintage furniture and found ephemera,
coordinating colors, making dumb puns, inventing involved alter
egos for my dogs, knowing my way around the city, thinking
strategically, being a gentleman, and inhabiting the in between
The first things people usually notice about me
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The red hair. My boyish good looks, or so I hope.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorites include mirah, broken social scene, owen, the love of
everything, pavement, yo la tengo, wilco, belle & sebastian,
beulah, cymbals eat guitars, danielle ate the sandwich, passion
pit, matt and kim, paul westerberg, ryan adams. my all time
favorite song is "this must be the place" by the talking heads.
and, I openly admit to indulging in all that bad pop music on the
I'm not too big on movies and I've been trying to employ a harm
reduction model when it comes to my television consumption
My bookshelf is mainly full of books on gender/queerness,
design/branding, and art/life. There are approximately five
half-read books next to my bed at any given moment.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my hound dog
a place to go home
and although realistically I know I could do without it, the
Collective Tarot is gunning for a spot on that list.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
quality over quantity. change, growth, youth, adulthood,
vulnerability, bravery, relationships, community, personal history,
progression, gender, androgyny, identity, embodiment, claiming,
power, purpose, privilege, intentionality, design, communication,
meaningfulness, authenticity, integrity, previously unimagined
realities, how I fit in the world, what I want my life to look
like, how to best take care of myself.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I can often be found enjoying a mid-to-low key evening with a few
friends. Occasionally out and about. Though if we're in playing
parlour games, I probably couldn't be happier.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a kitchen bottom. It's not really private, but I am a little
embarrassed about it, I must admit.
You should message me if
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You consider yourself to be a kind, thoughtful, creative
individual, and are in the market for a springtime
I'm more interested in male or masculine-identified suitors at the
moment, so fellas to the front of the line.
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