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31 Chicago, IL Genderqueer, Transmasculine, Transgender

Genderqueer, Transmasculine, Transgender

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 24–38
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 3:42pm
Queer, Bisexual
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Mostly non-monogamous
Has dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Born-and-bred Chicagoan. Queer/genderqueer of the trans-masculine variety. A maker of many things. Knee-deep in a self-inflicted second adolescence. Overly fond of hyphenation.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Seeking. Observing. Creating. Challenging. Laughing. Persevering. Hoping. Building. Believing. Reflecting. Napping. Holding. Growing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Decorating my apartment with vintage furniture and found ephemera, coordinating colors, making dumb puns, inventing involved alter egos for my dogs, knowing my way around the city, thinking strategically, being a gentleman, and inhabiting the in between space.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The red hair. My boyish good looks, or so I hope.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorites include mirah, broken social scene, owen, the love of everything, pavement, yo la tengo, wilco, belle & sebastian, beulah, cymbals eat guitars, danielle ate the sandwich, passion pit, matt and kim, paul westerberg, ryan adams. my all time favorite song is "this must be the place" by the talking heads. and, I openly admit to indulging in all that bad pop music on the radio.

I'm not too big on movies and I've been trying to employ a harm reduction model when it comes to my television consumption habits.

My bookshelf is mainly full of books on gender/queerness, design/branding, and art/life. There are approximately five half-read books next to my bed at any given moment.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my hound dog
human connection
a place to go home

and although realistically I know I could do without it, the Collective Tarot is gunning for a spot on that list.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
quality over quantity. change, growth, youth, adulthood, vulnerability, bravery, relationships, community, personal history, progression, gender, androgyny, identity, embodiment, claiming, power, purpose, privilege, intentionality, design, communication, meaningfulness, authenticity, integrity, previously unimagined realities, how I fit in the world, what I want my life to look like, how to best take care of myself.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I can often be found enjoying a mid-to-low key evening with a few friends. Occasionally out and about. Though if we're in playing parlour games, I probably couldn't be happier.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a kitchen bottom. It's not really private, but I am a little embarrassed about it, I must admit.
You should message me if
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You consider yourself to be a kind, thoughtful, creative individual, and are in the market for a springtime flirtation.

I'm more interested in male or masculine-identified suitors at the moment, so fellas to the front of the line.