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31 Chicago, IL Genderqueer


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24-38
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 7:59am
Queer, Bisexual
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Average build
Other but it’s not important
Has dogs
My self-summary
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Human of the queer, feminist, transmasculine variety. (They/them pronouns, please!) Born-and-bred Chicagoan. A maker of many things. Always learning. Knee-deep in a self-inflicted second adolescence. Overly fond of excessive hyphenation.
What I’m doing with my life
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I spend my days doing graphic design for a tech start-up, and the rest of my time pursing creative projects of my own, thinking intently about life, sipping cocktails with friends, going to art shows/performances/lectures and hanging with my hound dog (not at the lectures though; he stays home during those).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Decorating my apartment with vintage furniture and found ephemera, coordinating colors, inventing involved alter egos for my dog, knowing my way around the city, making you laugh, thinking strategically, understanding multiple perspectives, and inhabiting the in between space.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The red hair. My boyish good looks, or so I hope.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorites include waxahatchee, lovers, cataldo, the weakerthans, matt & kim, mirah, broken social scene, owen, the love of everything, pavement, yo la tengo, wilco, belle & sebastian, beulah, cymbals eat guitars, danielle ate the sandwich, passion pit, matt and kim, paul westerberg, ryan adams. my all time favorite song is "this must be the place" by the talking heads. and, I openly admit to indulging in all that bad pop music on the radio.

I'm not too big on movies and I've been trying to employ a harm reduction model when it comes to my television consumption habits.

My bookshelf is mainly full of books on gender/queerness, design/branding, and art/life. There are approximately five half-read books next to my bed at any given moment.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my hound dog
a place to go home
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
quality over quantity, always. change, growth, vulnerability, bravery. the rush that accompanies emotional risk taking. personal history, progression, gender, identity, embodiment. previously unimagined realities. power, purpose, privilege, intentionality. how I exist in the world. communication, relationships, meaning, authenticity, integrity, belonging. and what I want my life to look like.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I can often be found enjoying a mid-to-low key evening with a few friends. Occasionally out and about. Though if we're in playing parlour games, I probably couldn't be happier.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a kitchen bottom. It's not really private, but I am a little embarrassed about it, I must admit.
You should message me if
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You consider yourself to be a kind, thoughtful, creative individual, and are in the market for a summertime flirtation.

I'm more interested in male or masculine-identified suitors at the moment, so fellas to the front of the line please!