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ohrusty

31 Chicago, IL Genderqueer, Transmasculine, Transgender

Genderqueer, Transmasculine, Transgender

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 24–38
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Jul 22
Orientation
Queer, Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Status
Single
Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Human of the queer, feminist, trans-masculine variety. (They/them pronouns, please!) Born-and-bred Chicagoan. A maker of many things. Always learning. Knee-deep in a self-inflicted second adolescence. Overly fond of excessive hyphenation.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I spend my days doing graphic design for a tech start-up, and the rest of my time pursing creative projects of my own, thinking intently about life, sipping cocktails with friends, going to art shows/performances/lectures and hanging with my hound dog (not at the lectures though; he stays home during those).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Decorating my apartment with vintage furniture and found ephemera, coordinating colors, making you laugh, inventing involved alter egos for my dog, knowing my way around the city, thinking strategically, understanding multiple perspectives, and inhabiting the in between space.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The red hair. My boyish good looks, or so I hope.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Favorites include mirah, broken social scene, owen, the love of everything, pavement, yo la tengo, wilco, belle & sebastian, beulah, cymbals eat guitars, danielle ate the sandwich, passion pit, matt and kim, paul westerberg, ryan adams. my all time favorite song is "this must be the place" by the talking heads. and, I openly admit to indulging in all that bad pop music on the radio.

I'm not too big on movies and I've been trying to employ a harm reduction model when it comes to my television consumption habits.

My bookshelf is mainly full of books on gender/queerness, design/branding, and art/life. There are approximately five half-read books next to my bed at any given moment.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my hound dog
connection/expression
a place to go home
music
movement
humor
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
quality over quantity, always. change, growth, vulnerability, bravery. the rush that accompanies emotional risk taking. personal history, progression, gender, identity, embodiment. previously unimagined realities. power, purpose, privilege, intentionality. how I exist in the world. communication, relationships, meaning, authenticity, integrity, belonging. and what I want my life to look like.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I can often be found enjoying a mid-to-low key evening with a few friends. Occasionally out and about. Though if we're in playing parlour games, I probably couldn't be happier.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a kitchen bottom. It's not really private, but I am a little embarrassed about it, I must admit.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You consider yourself to be a kind, thoughtful, creative individual, and are in the market for a summertime flirtation.

I'm more interested in male or masculine-identified suitors at the moment, so fellas to the front of the line please!