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35 Tampa, FL Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 28-43
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

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Native American, White, Other
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
Has dogs and Has cats
English, Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am seeking out individuals to chill with as I am often terribly lonesome, particular about those I choose to associate with and in want of more people in my life that I may have positive and healthy interactions with. I am poly-amorous by nature and am completely out in the open with my partner about it, where that is concerned, so there is no drama to contend to. I have no interest in casual sex. I am seeking multiple meaningful, intimate relationships.
I'm very much drawn to fellow outsiders. I've always felt detached when it comes to the majority of people in this society. Many people have these "one size fits all" expectations that I either will not, or cannot live up to. And I am fine with that. I would be delighted to meet like minded individuals that share common interests. I like people who keep things simple and uncomplicated. I enjoy the company of people who are in touch with their inner children, yet possess the wisdom and maturity of an adult. I often dwell within my own little world. I'm comfortable with solitude. In fact, I embrace moments where I can be comfortably alone with my own thoughts without the distraction of anyone else, but I do crave some external stimulation. I love experimenting. Trying new things excites me. I approach the world with mind wide open. This world we inhabit both perplexes, disgusts, enchants, & intrigues me. I've a very curious nature, especially when it comes to life's peculiarities and "abnormalities". My eyes are always wandering. I highly enjoy people watching. Human interaction intrigues me to no end.- It can be much like a visit to the zoo!:)
I am fond of intellectuals, but at the same time, they intimidate me. I enjoy activities such as: viewing and discussing film, poetry, literature, and lyrics, taking turns reading poetry aloud with someone, singing even though I lack the talent, discovering new music, laying down on a blanket in the grass and having a picnic, sharing thoughts and emotions with someone, staying active (humans were never intended to be sedentary). I'm hypersensitive emotionally & physically, but I am not whiny nor ungrateful for my blessings. I am a very intense individual, addicted to touch; it gives me a high. My emotions are overwhelming, at times. I cry as well as laugh on a regular basis. I wish to meet people with whom I can feel comfortable enough to show all of my sides to.

Have any skeletons in your closet that need freeing? I'm very accepting and open. I make a good friend but often times people don't give me much of a chance because I'm unsure how to break the ice and am not always certain on how to keep a conversation going. I am, by nature, more of a listener than a talker. I've been told I'm "too quiet". At times I think in images and emotion.
I am incredibly open, expressive, and certain individuals have been able to get me to talk quite a bit. I stay away from drama and would much rather partake in a mature discussion, instead of an unnecessary argument. I am very socially awkward. I laugh at stupid random shit for no apparent reason.
I like when people can be silly and playful with me. I am not negative nor do I wish to associate with anyone who fosters the belief that life is composed of little more than doom and shittery. I battle depression, not succumb to it, and you wouldn't always believe it because It is easy to bring me happiness. I am only interested in speaking with straightforward people like myself. I'm a very emotionally charged person and drawn to others that are.
I have no interest in politics, the economy, or sports. I don't want to be exposed to anything related to any of these things, don't wish to discuss them, don't wish to hear about them, am not particularly fond of those who invest too much time dwelling on nor fretting over such things. If these are large topics of interest to you, you'd probably bore and annoy me.
It's neat when people can simply BE without the pressure to speak. I am a bit of a misanthropist, but I also posses an unusually strong sense of empathy towards fellow earthlings, both human & animal. I'm very liberal minded & have a distaste for most conservative republicans, bigots, people that strive to fit the status quo, arrogance, materialism, passive aggressives, anyone with a bad temper and anger problems, raging alcoholics, people that talk too much and say so little, and closed minded folks. I value intellectualism but can't stand pretentious assholes. I don't care what you do for a living. It's important to me that you are humble, kind, genuine, understanding, have the same values and interests as I. Being an introvert is a plus. If you dig my music, message me at once.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Entertaining myself, practicing mindfulness, wasting time ruminating (I'm working on it!), researching random topics of interest, reading, seeking pleasure, fighting my inner battles, surrounding myself with people and things I adore. BEING.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making things awkward. Speaking my mind. Honesty. Loyalty. I've been told I'm easy to talk to and good at getting people to share their thoughts and feelings without reservation. Accepting all your flaws as long as you are good at heart.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My height, so I've been told for all my life. People have also commented that I look younger than I actually am. People also seem to notice that I don't look American and ask where my "accent" is from and whether or not I'm European.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
(In my ideal world, if my profile resonates with you, we would cut the crap and awkwardness, engage in some conversation, and make plans to engage in an activity we both enjoy.)
Poetry; Lovely words captivate me. Mental illness memoirs, anything psychology related, anything true crime, anything involving gritty realism, and anything taboo.

As far as film goes, my preference is commonly Foreign & Independent cinema & documentaries. I like to be emotionally
impacted. Anything with an offbeat plot gets my attention, as well as
anything that's experimental or considered disturbing. I also like films with lots of dialogue. And anything tasteless. Cheesy horror makes for good laughs.
There was no option for Pescetarian, but this is more accurate than vegetarian because I do consume sea life. I try my best to eat clean, REAL food most of the time.
My ideal mate would be health conscious as well, and use sunblock. Sun cooked skin is hideous and a giant turn off, in my opinion. Also, who wants to age prematurely? I sure don't! While we are at it, mustaches also turn me off & are a dealbreaker cause they remind me of my father. Unruly beards (and pubes) are just awful too; I don't want to make out with a man & have it feel as though I'm eating shredded wheat! My music taste is extremely varied, but to name (just) a few of my favorites: Current 93, Coil, Pink Floyd, Nick Cave & The Bad Seeds, Delerium, Patty Griffin, Tori Amos, Adham Shaikh, A Murder Of Angels, Switchblade Symphony, Hannah Fury, VnV Nation, Sad Men and Giants, Joy Division,Dead Can Dance, The Moody Blues, In Gowan Ring, TwinSisTerMoon, Godspeed you Black Emperor, Ataraxia, Sole, Sadistik, spoken word poetry, etc..

Some genres of music I enjoy are: Ambient, Avante Garde/Experimental,Neofolk, Gothic, Neoclassical, Ethereal, Darkwave,EBM,cheesy 80's music, Independent Hip Hop, and more.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
We can live without more than we think we can.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Anything I'd do on any other day. Why does what one do on a Friday matter anyway?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a learning disability called Dyscalculia. There's a lot more to it than I'm willing to get into here. People afflicted with this are unable to grasp and remember mathematical concepts, rules, formulae, and sequences. It can also interfere with the ability to manage finances, budget, balance a checkbook,etc. I am unable to comprehend the concept of "North", "South", "East" & "West". I can't comprehend maps. My sense of direction is nonexistent. This is one of the reasons why I don't drive. If that is too inconvenient for you than you can browse on. There are others that find me well worth the effort.:)
You should message me if
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*you are polyamorous and know what it means
*you are a skilled lover who lasts long in bed.
* if you have actually read my profile & feel like you can relate to me.
*you enjoy true crime shows & documentaries as much as I do (I go on long marathons)
* if you feel that we were twins separated at birth
* you have an appreciation for obscure film, music & art!
* you are either as socially awkward as I am or don't mind that I am.
*You appreciate simple things in nature like a swim or hike.
*You are willing to get to know my well trained, loving dog. If you don't like my dog, I don't like you. She does not even shed, is compact, and I've trained her not to slobber all over people.
* you are morbid, difficult to shock, and not easily offended. I'm not politically correct, so you may dislike me if you are.
* you are a dork
* you have a love for the Gothic subculture & might like to go to the castle with me. That would be great!
* you want a deep, meaningful friendship that lasts a life time.
* you are as intense & passionate as I am.
* you have an open mind
* you have a love for the arts
*you don't take yourself too seriously
* you don't get bored easily.
* you are warm and loving
* you don't kill animals
* you want a quality friend who tells it like it is and won't ever judge you for past mistakes, income level, or other shallow nonsense.
*I am aware in the Q and A section, I did state I won't date people who have children, but I realize most people in my age group DO have them, and while I refuse to bring any more in this world, I love kids and if you are a good parent, I can love yours.